When a woman turns cold sexually towards her man…does this usually mean there is infidelity involved?
I treat my fiancee as well as any man can possibly treat a woman. But even though I do this, the sex has dried up almost completely. I was wondering if this is a sign that she could be getting her sex with another man. She is always too tired or will say things like "maybe this weekend". Its like she will try and fit me into her sexual calander. I have tried to wait and let her make the first moves…but after a month of that, I decided that was enough. Then when I try to touch her or start something, she makes me feel like I shouldn’t be touching her there. Please tell me if this sounds like cheating…and if so, what are some other signs that could go along with this?
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March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
It usually doesn’t mean shes cheating. She probably doesn’t find you as exciting as before. I think its time to get adventurous. With men, they are stimulated by the physical, like a skimpy, sexy outfit or a touch. With us, its more mental. Do something more to jump start the relationship.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
She might not be cheating…. she might have something medical or emotional.
SteveC
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
It doesn’t have to be cheating on you, but it seems obvious she doesn’t realy want to have much to do with you. Move on buddy.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
Due, she is getting some somewhere else and is waiting for the right time to dump you.
Face it head on with her, and get right to the bottom of it now.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
Brian stick it out.She is wanting a commitment. Getting married is the first step.Sounds like she is stressing over many things. Wait it out if you love her. Remember when you get married you are there till death do you part. In sickness and health.Give her time. Make life easier on her. See what you can do to relieve any stress,Keeping on her about sex will only turn her off more. Hang in there. I am sure she is a keeper.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
there can be different reasons, many women will have no "sexual appetite" due to the fact that there have been hormonal changes. If testosterone levels (yes women have them too!) become very low then sex drive decreases b/c testosterone is what trigger our brain for sex, men have more of it then women.
She can also be stressed or depressed, that can also turn a person away from any pleasurable feelings.
Sit down and talk to her, truly tell her how u feel and how u are there for support in any situation. U will not only solve her problem, but urs as well!
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
sometimes we women can get frustrated with our mate I have been like this with my boyfriend at times i was having sex with someone else but it wasn’t that it was that I was just totally frustrated and really not to much interested any more.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
I wouldn’t think that it would mean she’s cheating, if that’s the only sign. Maybe she wants some passion. Don’t ask for it, just give her a really passionate kiss, and work your way towards it. Don’t automatically go for the naughty bits, when touching her. Just kiss her and hug her and let her kiss you back. Otherwise, ask her why she doesn’t want to do the deed.
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
It doesn’t sound like cheating. It sounds like she’s got some resentment built up, or has started feeling more like you’re her brother (it happens).
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:12 am
It may not be that she is getting down with someone else, it could be that you have done something that she feels is wrong or that she feels she can’t deal with at all anymore,I remember not wanting sex from my kids dad,but that was because of a whole lot a stuff that he had done,that I couldn’t get pass,and the things that he did turned me off to him completely and I would just cringe when ever he would make sexual advances, I mean I hated the thought,but back to you,set aside some time to talk alone with her and maybe plan ahead for this conversation,the talk that you and her will have will probably take the better part of all day and even days to really get to the root of her and your problem,the possibilities are kinda endless on why she is rejecting sex from you………Good Luck!