Comments on: What are some obvious signs a husband is cheating?

By: Adorable Mrs

Adorable Mrs — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

Your husband is no longer interest in you… why can’t you move on your own? A lifeless marriage will not bring any happiness coz he simply not interested to be intimacy with you further. Sorry for a bit harsh but these are facts. You need to be realistic and wake up!

Frankly speaking, he is suffering too coz he maybe waiting for an appropriate timing to file divorce. Why can’t you release him and let him fly to his desire destination?

Even you had the evidences which your husband indeeds cheating behind you, what can u do to him? He will not feel remorseful neither will begging for your forgiveness. Why? Coz he has fall in love with someone else. Hence, let him go..

By: H

Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

Here’s a real clue,
When making love, he calls you by her name.

By: j g

j g — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

there isnt a good way unless you have someone you know that he wouldnt recongnize there vehicle and have them follow your husband around to see where he goes after work. How old are you anyway? You can email me if youd like

By: mrdix69

mrdix69 — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

sweetie if you have been sitting on the cookie for 2 years then he is getting it else where trust. sleeping in different area of the house? this is a done deal you have to think harder about moving on. Hanging on for money issues is not good even if you think it is necessary, you have to move on.

By: bangnoai

bangnoai — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

Tell you what, lady. Hard to believe, but some guys happen not to cheat, and I kinda feel close to the man you depict from outside. I have been in a similar situation with a wife who’d have been more than happy to nail down some kind of unfaithfulness from my side. I’ve also been working late, and no longer wore my ring. I didn’t take the wrong turn out of respect for my children, though. It’s rather been the other way around with my ex-wife’s personal activities, if you can see what I mean.

Why wouldn’t you give this man the respect he might deserve for a change? From here, and with what you write, looks to me he’s a mighty decent fella.

Now if you really want to see your husband as cheating, I’m quite sure you can conjure up a lot of evidence all by yourself without Yahoo readers’ help.

By: iamforreal

iamforreal — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

Girl, don’t settle for this shit. You deserve to be happy.

Sounds sooo like my husband who was cheating. He worked late, lost weight, grew his hair out and was distant emotionally and physically.

He was cheating cheating cheating. When I asked him about it aslo, he was ok with a divorce too..

Ask him to go to counseling with you, or get out.. If I can do it, you can.. and he has to pay child support to help you and your baby. You’ll be ok and you deserve to be with someone who loves you more than life itself.

By: ballman4425

ballman4425 — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

He says he is cheating!!

By: not2bright

not2bright — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

Sounds to me like he’d might be honest, just ask. You need to just address the situation with him and see if this is what you both want. If so, then maybe you can work it out and actually still have a good relationship for your child. Doesn’t sound like he’s cheating though, just maybe not happy, like it sounds you aren’t.

By: joan_of_freakin_arc

joan_of_freakin_arc — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

does he find falt,
belittle
name call
act like he is boored when u talk
work alot of overtime
talk on his cell in another room
refuse to do things for u
u and he don’t have the conversations u once had
seem to not value u
doesn’t think your opinion is important
picks fights
is unusually kind, buying gifts,
intuition tells u there is something wrong but u can’t put your finder on what is actually wrong
drastic changes, buys new clothes, is selfish with money
blames u for every problem u have
doesn’t talk much anymore
makes excuses to go out to see friends, but stays gone for hours, completely the opposite of what he use to be like
anything u say he thinks is wrong, totally opposed to any idea, or ways to problem solve u may have, taking others parts, when they are clearly wrong.
acts agitated if u need anything from him, puts everyone else first and u last. u just aren’t a priority in his life anymore.
yes u can leave him, child support, alimoney, there are ways to do it, also get a job if u need to, as life is way too short to compete for his love.
not wanting to make love to u, means either he doesn’t find u attractive anymore, or he is getting it from someone else

By: greeneyes75

greeneyes75 — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 02:13:16 +0000

In my ex husband’s case, here are a few indicators I had:

1.) He came home from work with his hands smelling like cooch, and he wasn’t a gynecologist.
2.) He came home from a night out "with the boys" and had a used condom stuck to his leg.
3.) We didn’t have sex for about 8 months and he never said a word.
4.) You usually just know.