Comments on: Well, I posted a q last nite, got some answers, but not what I needed. What are some signs my hubby is gay?

By: Tad S

Tad S — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

When walking down the street, watch where he looks first as a couple approaches. Does he glance at the man or the woman first? Is there a consistent pattern? I’ve found this technique to be pretty reliable.

By: P l

P l — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

dont confront him if you want to remain friends. i would just forget about if youve both moved on. even if he is gay he probably hasnt addmitted it to himself yet.

By: allansc2005

allansc2005 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

Sounds like he MIGHT be bisexual to me.Have you asked him?

By: charles m

charles m — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

being gay is not as easy to spot if he hiding it little things may show like less sex eyc you may think its an affair but its actually a man confront him x

By: temple_lynne

temple_lynne — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

does he spend alot ov time with men? is he pleasing you in the bedroom ?nd are u feeling pushed out abit and lyk he is not that involved in this marrage

By: Sunflower

Sunflower — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

go to him and say guess what i ordered and he will say what and you say a strap on and say i figured me and you could have some fun,, but act all sexy about it and if he is interested and gets aroused then he may be turned on by men.. and just ask him.. honey are you gay? and let him no your not just picking on him but are concerned… good luck… but all guys like BJ’s lol.. and some even like the anal stuff that dont mean they are gay they could just like the feeling…and in finding what he likes and tell him what you like you two will become closer and be able to be more intimate good luck….

By: whijess03

whijess03 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

just because he has a fasination w bj’s and anal doesn’t set him in te gay dept. You will only know if you ask and if he is i don’t see what the problem is. Let him be him as long as no sexual things are going on infront of your daughter. My best friend is gay and i never knew it in school. He was a well dressed and very polite guy, always took care of himself and what he looked like. It was not untill recently maybe 2 or 3 years ago that he came to me and said he was gay. He has no feminine walks, no wearing womans clothes, you really wouldn’t know if he was unless you ask. I sa just ask it may be awkward but hopefully you’ll get a straight answer. good luck and be gentle if he is accept him for him or you will loose him

By: nudeguy1959

nudeguy1959 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

Honestly, because he didn’t have sex with you often that means he is gay? Are you really saying that? Anyway, It is a know fact that some men, after their wives give birth are turned off to sex. Something about a baby coming out of there. It is possible that that could have been a reason for lack of intimacy. I think it’s silly to automatically assume he is gay because he didn’t have sex with you often enough.

By: I'manalienfrog

I'manalienfrog — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

Did you ever think that maybe he’s just not interested in "you" sexually anymore. Try to spice things up and see what happens.Most men have a fascination for BJs. Maybe you should give him one once in a while. It will give him something to look forward to.

By: dznuts

dznuts — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:22:52 +0000

That’s weird….you let him do anything he want, bj anytime, butt sex, and he don’t wanted …..damm…poor guy…..he’s gay for sure