Comments on: suspicious… red flags flying. ? http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:24:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: - - http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1211 - - Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1211 Yes I think she's cheating. Tell her that you're not putting up with her "friendship" with this man- and you're leaving her. I don't think the onus is on you to dig up proof of her infidelity. She's the one who should be put on the spot and should prove herself. Bring up the kids in the conversation and how they'd feel if they knew and how they'd be affected by a split. If she's not braindead, this'll get her thinking. Yes I think she’s cheating. Tell her that you’re not putting up with her "friendship" with this man- and you’re leaving her.
I don’t think the onus is on you to dig up proof of her infidelity. She’s the one who should be put on the spot and should prove herself.
Bring up the kids in the conversation and how they’d feel if they knew and how they’d be affected by a split. If she’s not braindead, this’ll get her thinking.

]]> By: mariasonawire http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1212 mariasonawire Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1212 I agree there are red flags ALL over your world right now. Be strong, make her accountable, set boundaries fro your marriage (what she is doing with her new male friend is not respectful of the marriage. Her finances are not your problem. Stand up for yourself, send a clear message to the kids and kick her to the curb. Good luck I agree there are red flags ALL over your world right now. Be strong, make her accountable, set boundaries fro your marriage (what she is doing with her new male friend is not respectful of the marriage. Her finances are not your problem. Stand up for yourself, send a clear message to the kids and kick her to the curb.

Good luck

]]> By: toxic21 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1213 toxic21 Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1213 all this speculation with no proof what sense does that make... why not find out which motel they go to and find out for sure..but if she isn't doing anything then u live with the guilt knowing u didnt trust her all this speculation with no proof what sense does that make…

why not find out which motel they go to and find out for sure..but if she isn’t doing anything then u live with the guilt knowing u didnt trust her

]]> By: sweet-p http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1214 sweet-p Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1214 you have reason to be suspicous, it kinda devious n sneaky..but ever consider a camera or recorder.. then u can find out for sure you have reason to be suspicous, it kinda devious n sneaky..but ever consider a camera or recorder.. then u can find out for sure

]]> By: H60DLUM http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1215 H60DLUM Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1215 Coquette's are always insecure sIuts who didn't get enough attention from daddy. Coquette’s are always insecure sIuts who didn’t get enough attention from daddy.

]]> By: His Little Wife http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1216 His Little Wife Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1216 I'm an infidelity couples counselor, and I have to tell you, always go with your gut, it's usually right when it comes to infidelity. There are numerous red flags for infidelity, and she's clearly gaslighting (lying to cover her behind about it). Gifts? Overnights at a motel? Constant Texts? Guarding her phone? Changing her password? Yeah, classic signs of cheating, and normally only 1 is enough to be wary of cheating, but you've got numerous ones. If you want answers before you confront her, put a keylogger on your computer. Here's a good one that I know of: www.webwatcherkids.com I hope that helps. I’m an infidelity couples counselor, and I have to tell you, always go with your gut, it’s usually right when it comes to infidelity. There are numerous red flags for infidelity, and she’s clearly gaslighting (lying to cover her behind about it). Gifts? Overnights at a motel? Constant Texts? Guarding her phone? Changing her password? Yeah, classic signs of cheating, and normally only 1 is enough to be wary of cheating, but you’ve got numerous ones. If you want answers before you confront her, put a keylogger on your computer. Here’s a good one that I know of:

http://www.webwatcherkids.com

I hope that helps.

]]> By: Ken B http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying/comment-page-1#comment-1217 Ken B Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:41:18 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/suspicious-red-flags-flying#comment-1217 "She has financial dependence on me" That statement says it all sugar daddy. Sound's like she is looking for another/additional sugar daddy. She's more than likely cheating on you. Hire a private detective and be prepared for the results. Take all necessary steps to protect yourself financially before you expose her. Cancel any joint accounts and make sure that she doesn't have access to anything just prior to booting her to the curb. "She has financial dependence on me"

That statement says it all sugar daddy. Sound’s like she is looking for another/additional sugar daddy. She’s more than likely cheating on you. Hire a private detective and be prepared for the results. Take all necessary steps to protect yourself financially before you expose her. Cancel any joint accounts and make sure that she doesn’t have access to anything just prior to booting her to the curb.

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