Comments on: Should I leave my husband, or does it seem like I am being too dramatic? http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:23:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Manuel http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2343 Manuel Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2343 i really think u should end it unfortunately unless both of u make a true effort. also if u have feelings for someone else u should put them aside for a while and wait to see wat happens. hope everything ends well for u =] i really think u should end it unfortunately unless both of u make a true effort. also if u have feelings for someone else u should put them aside for a while and wait to see wat happens. hope everything ends well for u =]

]]> By: Nicole http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2344 Nicole Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2344 Well, infidelity will only make things worse, guaranteed. You think it's bad now wait until your husband finds out you're banging another man (and he will find out; they always do.) I don't think you're being dramatic. If you are miserable and the only thing keeping you in your marriage is your dogs and fear of losing your home, then maybe it's time to get divorced. How could your husband possibly think things are ok when you don't even sleep together and fight constantly? You deserve to be happy, but take the RIGHT steps to get there. Which means divorce, THEN find another man. Good luck hun. Well, infidelity will only make things worse, guaranteed. You think it’s bad now wait until your husband finds out you’re banging another man (and he will find out; they always do.)

I don’t think you’re being dramatic. If you are miserable and the only thing keeping you in your marriage is your dogs and fear of losing your home, then maybe it’s time to get divorced. How could your husband possibly think things are ok when you don’t even sleep together and fight constantly?

You deserve to be happy, but take the RIGHT steps to get there. Which means divorce, THEN find another man.

Good luck hun.

]]> By: RMD http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2342 RMD Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2342 Take the dogs and go - but if you're on the mortgage with him, get a lawyer first. If you are in a relationship where physical violence occurs, you need to get out as soon as possible. It will only get worse. Take the dogs and go - but if you’re on the mortgage with him, get a lawyer first.

If you are in a relationship where physical violence occurs, you need to get out as soon as possible. It will only get worse.

]]> By: red head http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2345 red head Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2345 take your dogs and leave you deserve better. take your dogs and leave you deserve better.

]]> By: Still TTC #1!! http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2346 Still TTC #1!! Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2346 Do you love your husband? If you do, go to him and ask him to go to counseling with you. Tell him you are not happy and unless things change between you two, you will leave. Put it to him bluntly. Don't yell or scream, don't be accusatory, don't cry. Be calm and just tell him straight. It's not going to be easy - it's going to be incredibly hard, but you have to make changes in your life now or you will suffer needlessly. Talk to him, and then go from there. But, on another note, you did mention things got physical. What do you mean by this? He should never, EVER put his hands on you, no matter how angry he gets. If he is abusing you in any way, I recommend you leaving him ASAP. Do you love your husband? If you do, go to him and ask him to go to counseling with you. Tell him you are not happy and unless things change between you two, you will leave. Put it to him bluntly. Don’t yell or scream, don’t be accusatory, don’t cry. Be calm and just tell him straight. It’s not going to be easy - it’s going to be incredibly hard, but you have to make changes in your life now or you will suffer needlessly. Talk to him, and then go from there.

But, on another note, you did mention things got physical. What do you mean by this? He should never, EVER put his hands on you, no matter how angry he gets. If he is abusing you in any way, I recommend you leaving him ASAP.

]]> By: Cracker Jack http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2347 Cracker Jack Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2347 Yeah, just end it. Once you 2 started sleeping in different beds, the written was on the all. The co-worker thing doesn't help matters, either. And lol. You're more worried about the dogs then your own husband? That's ashame. Yeah, just end it. Once you 2 started sleeping in different beds, the written was on the all. The co-worker thing doesn’t help matters, either.

And lol. You’re more worried about the dogs then your own husband? That’s ashame.

]]> By: Zinger II http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2348 Zinger II Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2348 you're living a life of hell for HIS dogs? wow - you are nuts. you’re living a life of hell for HIS dogs?

wow - you are nuts.

]]> By: Roxy http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2349 Roxy Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2349 Yes, you should leave him and take the dogs with you. Yes, you should leave him and take the dogs with you.

]]> By: Jim http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2350 Jim Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2350 Why did you get married? All the indicators are there for a breakup. Your marriage is very dysfunctional. And you know you are headed on the way out because you have a thing for a co-worker. So now, its just a matter of time before you jump in bed with that other person. This marriage was never meant to work. Get out now. Why did you get married? All the indicators are there for a breakup. Your marriage is very dysfunctional. And you know you are headed on the way out because you have a thing for a co-worker. So now, its just a matter of time before you jump in bed with that other person. This marriage was never meant to work. Get out now.

]]> By: Everybody's fool http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic/comment-page-1#comment-2351 Everybody's fool Thu, 24 Mar 2011 07:07:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-leave-my-husband-or-does-it-seem-like-i-am-being-too-dramatic#comment-2351 Have you tried telling him all this? That you came to a point where you can't take it anymore, that you're only there because of the dogs? Maybe this will shake him up a bit. Don't do anything with your coworker, you already have enough issues to work on, don't add infidelity to them, you don't need it. Sit down and talk to him, with all the honesty you had in your post. Have you tried telling him all this? That you came to a point where you can’t take it anymore, that you’re only there because of the dogs? Maybe this will shake him up a bit. Don’t do anything with your coworker, you already have enough issues to work on, don’t add infidelity to them, you don’t need it. Sit down and talk to him, with all the honesty you had in your post.

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