Comments on: pleaaase answer! i dont know what to do..? http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:19:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Tia http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-2241 Tia Fri, 04 Mar 2011 06:56:40 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do#comment-2241 You are making you go through hell for absolutely nothing. You are trying to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not. You really have it bad when it comes to trusting your guy. And playing games like you are playing to try to find out if he's doing anything behind your back will eventually ruin your relationship. You need to be able to trust your boyfriend. If you have trust issues with him then you are not in a healthy relationship. So far you have given any signs that your boyfriend is unfaithful to you. Your boyfriend has told you that he has done nothing wrong. If you can't believe what he tells you then you should not be with him. Your boyfriend has not given you a reason for you not to trust him. If you really love this guy and you want to have a good relationship with him then you need to trust him. A relationship without trust is not a relationship. And blackmailing him is not going to give you the answer that you are looking for. You think that your boyfriend is cheating on you and you want to hear that is what he's doing. But honey, your boyfriend is not cheating on you. You are letting your imagination run wild and if you continue to do this then you will push him into the arms of another girl. Is that what you want? I think that your boyfriend has been honest with you when he told you that he didn't do anything wrong. Now it's up to you to believe him. If you want your relationship to work then you have to start trusting him. You need to trust him until he gives you a reason for you not to trust him. Guys will only put up so much with girls that are insecure about their relationships. You have no reason to be insecure when it comes to your boyfriend. Instead of putting your energy on him cheating put it on your relationship and just focus on how much you love each other. You are making you go through hell for absolutely nothing. You are trying to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not. You really have it bad when it comes to trusting your guy. And playing games like you are playing to try to find out if he’s doing anything behind your back will eventually ruin your relationship. You need to be able to trust your boyfriend. If you have trust issues with him then you are not in a healthy relationship. So far you have given any signs that your boyfriend is unfaithful to you. Your boyfriend has told you that he has done nothing wrong. If you can’t believe what he tells you then you should not be with him. Your boyfriend has not given you a reason for you not to trust him. If you really love this guy and you want to have a good relationship with him then you need to trust him. A relationship without trust is not a relationship. And blackmailing him is not going to give you the answer that you are looking for. You think that your boyfriend is cheating on you and you want to hear that is what he’s doing. But honey, your boyfriend is not cheating on you. You are letting your imagination run wild and if you continue to do this then you will push him into the arms of another girl. Is that what you want? I think that your boyfriend has been honest with you when he told you that he didn’t do anything wrong. Now it’s up to you to believe him. If you want your relationship to work then you have to start trusting him. You need to trust him until he gives you a reason for you not to trust him. Guys will only put up so much with girls that are insecure about their relationships. You have no reason to be insecure when it comes to your boyfriend. Instead of putting your energy on him cheating put it on your relationship and just focus on how much you love each other.

]]> By: david s http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-2242 david s Fri, 04 Mar 2011 06:56:40 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do#comment-2242 you need to trust him mor. And learn to communicate with him. And no need to hide things and mess like that. Both of you need to commonuciate if you want anykind of relationship.! Thats what you do. And watch your friend they have a tendency of putting stress on a relationship. you need to trust him mor. And learn to communicate with him. And no need to hide things and mess like that. Both of you need to commonuciate if you want anykind of relationship.! Thats what you do. And watch your friend they have a tendency of putting stress on a relationship.

]]> By: variety5160 http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-2243 variety5160 Fri, 04 Mar 2011 06:56:40 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/pleaaase-answer-i-dont-know-what-to-do#comment-2243 From what you have said it seems like he was way too calm about it all to be lying. I think he kept calling and asking more out of curiosity about what it was he was supposed to have done. Here is a test. Accuse him of something that you know for fact is not true. See how he reacts. Does he get angry or does he stay calm. Do his eyes stay focused directly on you? Does he move his arms about wildly while trying to convince you he is being honest. Then the next time he lies you will know because he will do the opposite. From what you have said it seems like he was way too calm about it all to be lying. I think he kept calling and asking more out of curiosity about what it was he was supposed to have done.

Here is a test. Accuse him of something that you know for fact is not true. See how he reacts. Does he get angry or does he stay calm. Do his eyes stay focused directly on you? Does he move his arms about wildly while trying to convince you he is being honest. Then the next time he lies you will know because he will do the opposite.

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