Is there a such thing as too much sex in a marriage?
We’re a young couple and have been married for over 10yrs and we have a great relationship…….we text, talk, or instant msg each other all day. A slow week for us sexually is 3 times a week(usually because of being busy with work and the kids), but it is normal for us to have sex everyday or every other day.
After listening to other couples our age, I’m starting to think that maybe we’re a little strange………possibly nymphos. Even though we’ve been like this our whole relationship……Is this a sign of infidelity?
LOL! @ Loud Whisperer…….I didn’t say we have a perfect relationship……I really don’t think that is possible, but we do have a great time enjoying each other.
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November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I don’t think so.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
No. Married couples start to think that just because their married, they need to follow society’s norm and only have sex once a week or once a month. Believe me that having a healthy sexual appetite is not a bad thing, and it’s not abnormal for couples who are passionate toward each other. No i do not think it’s a sign of infidelity, because usually if a spouse is cheating, there is no sex at home. So count yourself lucky that you and your husband still have the passion after 10 years and don’t try to follow the norm couple. Good luck!
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Def. not. We’re a young couple and we do it at least once a day , if not more. Anything is normal for any couple.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I have been married 23 years and we average 3-4 times a week.If you do it right you want to do it more.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Not at all. It just means both of you are well-matched in terms of libido and desire, and you place a priority on intimacy with your spouse!!
Well done!
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
no thats good! you’re the couple everyone wants to be.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Every day or other day? Are you asking a question here, or just bragging?
It is impossible for anything you do with each other to be a sign of infidelity. Infidelity only covers things you do with *others*.
There’s nothing unusual about sex every day or other day, many couples are that frequent. Enjoy what you’re sharing together, you’ve nothing to worry about - and know that there are couples out there that envy you..
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Every couple is different…it doesn’t matter what other couples do, it matters what you two are happy with…as for infidelity, speak to your partner…I fail to see why a high sex drive would have anything to do with it, if you two are meeting each other’s desires…
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I wish for this so called problem. Congrats you have a great marriage. You are the one out of who knows that actually have it figured out. Work hard enjoy your kids and make love to each other when ever possible. Your better then fine. I’d tell good luck but you seem to have enough.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Too much sex is a sign of infidelity? Absolutely not - it’s the sign of a great relationship. We have been together two years, quite a bit older than you though, and we have sex every day that it is possible. When we miss a couple of days we are clawing at each other like animals.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I don’t think you have a problem, maybe the other couples you know are just sexually repressed? My husband and I have been together five years and we usually have sex once a day or at least every other day.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
If u guys r nymphos i wonder what my husband was he did it two to three times a day for the first twenty years of our marriage. Its only a issue if one of the two complain like i did.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
You are being very intimate and it’s great. Don’t stop.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Do not fall into the trap of pretending everything is fine when you know that it’s not.-
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
It depends on your living conditions, your chemistry with your partner, your body condition (i mean health) etc. But as such there is no criteria for sexual activities between partners. As much as both of you are comfortable and enjoying you can do. Don’t compare with other because everybody will not have same physical, psychological, emotional situations.
November 26th, 2010 at 7:17 am
No, enjoy it.