Comments on: Is the man who forgives his wife for her infidelity more or less of a "real man"? http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:10:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Caroline http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1017 Caroline Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1017 That is why marriage is not for children. It takes a Man and/or Woman to make a marriage work. No one ever said it would be easy, but I believe that they never emphasized enough just how much work it really takes. I believe that it takes a REAL Man or Woman to stay and face the problems and issues. Remember that there are always to sides to every story, be willing to hear the other side. Be willing to hear why she decided to cheat. If you can listen honestly, then you will be able to make the right decision about whether to stay or to go. True Love is worth fighting for. But trying to make love happen when it doesn't exist is very tiring. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this, but take comfort in knowing that you are not alone. You are not the first and i can guarantee you want be the last. I will remember you and your family tonight when I say my prayers. Good Luck to you and God bless you both. That is why marriage is not for children. It takes a Man and/or Woman to make a marriage work. No one ever said it would be easy, but I believe that they never emphasized enough just how much work it really takes.
I believe that it takes a REAL Man or Woman to stay and face the problems and issues. Remember that there are always to sides to every story, be willing to hear the other side. Be willing to hear why she decided to cheat. If you can listen honestly, then you will be able to make the right decision about whether to stay or to go. True Love is worth fighting for. But trying to make love happen when it doesn’t exist is very tiring.
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this, but take comfort in knowing that you are not alone. You are not the first and i can guarantee you want be the last.
I will remember you and your family tonight when I say my prayers. Good Luck to you and God bless you both.

]]> By: Thunder Storm http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1018 Thunder Storm Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1018 I know a man who forgave his wife for cheating on him, but she did it again this time with his best friend. so you can be a real man for the first time, but the second time can make you not feel like a man. I know a man who forgave his wife for cheating on him, but she did it again this time with his best friend.

so you can be a real man for the first time, but the second time can make you not feel like a man.

]]> By: Carlotta http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1019 Carlotta Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1019 I'd say he's more of man if this is the first time. If this is a habit of hers, he has issues. I’d say he’s more of man if this is the first time. If this is a habit of hers, he has issues.

]]> By: Vanessa G http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1020 Vanessa G Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1020 More of a man, it is easier to cut an run like a baby than stand there and fix your problems. Affairs are never just one person's fault, the solution has to be derived together. More of a man, it is easier to cut an run like a baby than stand there and fix your problems. Affairs are never just one person’s fault, the solution has to be derived together.

]]> By: boundandgagged http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1021 boundandgagged Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1021 I would say more.If she does it again,he becomes less of a man. I would say more.If she does it again,he becomes less of a man.

]]> By: MARS http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1022 MARS Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1022 I would have tremendous respect for a man with that strong of a character. Personally, I don't think I'm strong enough to do such a thing, if she has decided to move on, I don't think my pride would let me try to keep her. I would have tremendous respect for a man with that strong of a character. Personally, I don’t think I’m strong enough to do such a thing, if she has decided to move on, I don’t think my pride would let me try to keep her.

]]> By: hello http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1023 hello Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1023 Everyone is different, but for me, it would be less of a man. For me, being unfaithful is the worst thing my wife could do to me. Even though I do love her, if she was unfaithful, I could not stay. Being unfaithful just breaks everything, if a person is unhappy in their marriage and they believe it's beyond repair, then they should divorce, but never cheat. Everyone is different, but for me, it would be less of a man. For me, being unfaithful is the worst thing my wife could do to me. Even though I do love her, if she was unfaithful, I could not stay. Being unfaithful just breaks everything, if a person is unhappy in their marriage and they believe it’s beyond repair, then they should divorce, but never cheat.

]]> By: Tiffany http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1024 Tiffany Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1024 I think it would depend on the situation If she had cheated once told you about it and is sincerely sorry I think it takes more of a women to admit it and man to forgive but if shes off cheating with multiple people and your finding out someother way then i think it could be weakness because if your still with her after all the bs maybe shes a security blanket? Either way it takes a real man/women to forgive any kind of hurtful act. Also who you love and how you love them should not show how much of a man you are. I think it would depend on the situation

If she had cheated once told you about it and is sincerely sorry I think it takes more of a women to admit it and man to forgive

but if shes off cheating with multiple people and your finding out someother way then i think it could be weakness because if your still with her after all the bs maybe shes a security blanket?

Either way it takes a real man/women to forgive any kind of hurtful act.

Also who you love and how you love them should not show how much of a man you are.

]]> By: Glue is White http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1025 Glue is White Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1025 Nooo.. Nooo..

]]> By: ravin_lunatic http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man/comment-page-1#comment-1026 ravin_lunatic Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:06:08 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-the-man-who-forgives-his-wife-for-her-infidelity-more-or-less-of-a-real-man#comment-1026 Maybe you have a different definition of a REAL MAN than I do. A real man supports his wife, values his family, and is generally the 'head of the home', that is...making the final decisions about things he and wife talk about. He takes responsibility for everything in his family. Does forgiveness make him a 'real man'? It depends on what the real relationship is about. She probably sees him as a wimp and will continue to have affairs. Maybe you have a different definition of a REAL MAN than I do. A real man supports his wife, values his family, and is generally the ‘head of the home’, that is…making the final decisions about things he and wife talk about. He takes responsibility for everything in his family. Does forgiveness make him a ‘real man’? It depends on what the real relationship is about. She probably sees him as a wimp and will continue to have affairs.

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