IS MY GIRL CHEATING ON ME? I need some investigation tips. Please help!?
There are many signs, such as missing in action, never laying cell phone down, turning ringer off. Also, she gets agitated if I ask her where she’s been or call to ask how long before she gets home. I had access to her phone records a few months ago & saw that she was dealing with an ex. She claims it was strictly business since he’s a mortician & a friend of hers died. She has since locked out the access to her records. She doesn’t work or go to school, but always have so much to do, without me! I just need some tips on how to dig for the truth without seeming like a stalker. We have trust issues & have had our share of infidelity, mostly on her part. I feel we may be parting ways soon & I need some closure. I don’t want to hire an investigator. PLEASE HELP!…..we’ve been together for 11.5 years
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Tags: amp, cell phone, closure, infidelity, missing in action, mortician, parting ways, ringer, signs, stalker, trust issues, truth
April 30th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
Just the ringer off tells it ALL! I did the same thing when I was talking to someone else. I think you really just need to let her go and not worry about finding proof, because I was going to suggest following her but then if you did see her with another guy you would probably end up in an altercation. So with all that you have been through so far just move on and find someone willing to treat you like you deserve. If she isn’t cheating she still isn’t giving you the attention you need.
April 30th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
Get on that show "Cheaters". I’d love to see that guy get f*cked up again! What an idiot!
April 30th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
Seriously consider dumping her.
For the weekend pack your bags and leave. Go to a friends house (not a woman’s), hotel, whatever.
See how long it takes for her to call you. When she calls, don’t answer. Hopefully she’ll leave a message. Review the message for about a half hour and carefully think over what she said.
Call her back (if she has continued trying to call you - ignore it) when you’re darn good and ready and explain you need a break since she’s not respectfully considering why you’re upset with her. Meaning it sounds like you’ve gone over this before and she’s blowing it off in the same manner that she’s basically distancing herself from you.
If she’s unwilling to consider your concerns then dump her.
April 30th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
you don’t need to hire an investigator if you know where she is going or if not just make up a story like a friend of yours saw her and an ex too cozy at pick a place and take it from there is she doesn’t work of go to school what is she doing with her time that it doesn’t involve you
April 30th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
Check out the website I put under sources.
They have products to spy her by yourself, you don’t need to waste a lot of money on a private investigator.
The Check Mate Semen Detection KitKT100 seems like a great products for you!
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