is it wrong if an ex bf/gf pf yours continue to contact you or text you after a breakup?
I’,m asking this bcuz my ex-boyfriend called me one time and texted me about 10 times after our breakup. He lied about his maritial status to me, so i was w/ a married man w/o knowing it. His texts said "u must wanna see me" "what time u get off work?", ‘U looked nice today/u miss me"…I think these are in my opinion signs of infidelity behind his wifes back, or have his cake n eat it too but zi need y’all opinion. Also, he tells his sister that those texts were not signs of getting back w/ me.
also to add that he’s a married man texting me these type of messages, so does him being married make it easily wrong?
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Tags: maritial status, married man, quot, signs of infidelity, texts, wifes
July 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
Tell him to stop and if he doesn’t have the number blocked. If the contact is welcome than it’s ok to do so after a break up. If it’s not welcome than it can be considered harassment.
July 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
nope.
July 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
its not wrong, my ex’s do that ; but the way this guys sounds you shouldn’t write back! dont talk to him! seriously, that would make you look stupid bc he will probably tell other people "yeah she wont stop texting me" to make it look like its all you, so just dont answer or call back! expecially since he didnt tell you he was married hes OBVIOUSLY unfaithful, dont mess with those type of guys, it will only hurt you <3
edit: yeah its wrong since hes married, id tell his wife! lol
July 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
It’s not wrong, but that’s only generally. This guy is kind of, erm, dodgy. And worst of all, he lied to you. Worst thing ever.
July 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
stop all contacts!
Best for both parties!