Comments on: Is it infidelity and what would you do? http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:07:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: ♥♥Pirates of the Persian Gulf;] http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-751 ♥♥Pirates of the Persian Gulf;] Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-751 I agree with harley d. Communication is everything. Tell him how you bumped into this & and that you are a little upset about this. Is he looking for someone else? Does he not value his life with you and the kids? Honestly I just think it was for fun but as a woman I understand your position. He should respect you;-) Good Luck. I agree with harley d. Communication is everything. Tell him how you bumped into this & and that you are a little upset about this. Is he looking for someone else? Does he not value his life with you and the kids?
Honestly I just think it was for fun but as a woman I understand your position. He should respect you;-)

Good Luck.

]]> By: Cynthia http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-752 Cynthia Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-752 I wouldn't put up with it, i'd confront him immediately. I wouldn’t put up with it, i’d confront him immediately.

]]> By: Alea http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-753 Alea Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-753 Been through it you either get over it or move on with your life. Been through it you either get over it or move on with your life.

]]> By: question http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-754 question Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-754 he may have just been curious - he should have explored with you, not without you. you really have to sit down and talk about it without getting mad. sex is fun and if someone feels they have to hide to explore, then somethings wrong. work on fantasies together. go to a strip club together - make him see you as a "hot as hell dream wife" and don't binge on what could have happened - it obviously didn't. but it might if you don't air some stuff out now. he may have just been curious - he should have explored with you, not without you.
you really have to sit down and talk about it without getting mad.
sex is fun and if someone feels they have to hide to explore, then somethings wrong.
work on fantasies together.
go to a strip club together - make him see you as a "hot as hell dream wife" and don’t binge on what could have happened - it obviously didn’t.

but it might if you don’t air some stuff out now.

]]> By: tfblechris http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-755 tfblechris Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-755 He has not posted a profile yet, therefore he hasn't followed through with it yet. You should confront him about it and tell him you would be willing to work it out if he agrees to go to marriage counseling. Had he submitted the profile I would have suggested visiting an attorney. He has not posted a profile yet, therefore he hasn’t followed through with it yet. You should confront him about it and tell him you would be willing to work it out if he agrees to go to marriage counseling. Had he submitted the profile I would have suggested visiting an attorney.

]]> By: rpetch007 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-756 rpetch007 Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-756 as he had not finish his profile it tell me hes not in to it in the first place .. but looking .. only .. its his fun .. but he would not go in to the site that far .. anyway .. so your upset over a man looking .. i cant see why.. as he had not finish his profile it tell me hes not in to it in the first place .. but looking .. only .. its his fun .. but he would not go in to the site that far .. anyway .. so your upset over a man looking .. i cant see why..

]]> By: smitch1067 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-757 smitch1067 Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-757 Just talk to him Just talk to him

]]> By: harley d http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-758 harley d Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-758 If I were you I would come straight out and ask him about this,,you both have nothing if you don't have honesty and trust. If I were you I would come straight out and ask him about this,,you both have nothing if you don’t have honesty and trust.

]]> By: That Girl http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-759 That Girl Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-759 Lay it on the line. Let him know you found it. Then wait and see his reaction. If he apologizes and agrees to get help for his problem, then you're good. If he gets defensive, blames you, says you're snooping, anything that takes the blame off him and puts it on to you, then you've got trouble. This isn't your fault. If he wants to date, he needs a divorce. If he wants to stay faithful with a good woman, then he's going about it the wrong way. Tell him, see his reaction, and go from there. You might check out the book, "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson. It's your turn to stand firm in who you are and what you expect from him. If he cannot give you that, then he needs to find a new place. You can do it on your own. He will finance you - court ordered - and you and the kids will be all right. Never doubt yourself. You are much, much stronger than you realize. Lay it on the line. Let him know you found it. Then wait and see his reaction. If he apologizes and agrees to get help for his problem, then you’re good. If he gets defensive, blames you, says you’re snooping, anything that takes the blame off him and puts it on to you, then you’ve got trouble. This isn’t your fault. If he wants to date, he needs a divorce. If he wants to stay faithful with a good woman, then he’s going about it the wrong way. Tell him, see his reaction, and go from there. You might check out the book, "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson. It’s your turn to stand firm in who you are and what you expect from him. If he cannot give you that, then he needs to find a new place.

You can do it on your own. He will finance you - court ordered - and you and the kids will be all right. Never doubt yourself. You are much, much stronger than you realize.

]]> By: Mack http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do/comment-page-1#comment-760 Mack Sat, 17 Apr 2010 21:26:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-infidelity-and-what-would-you-do#comment-760 What were YOU doing on that site anyway. Seems like you were up to something yourself huh. Instead of snooping around, why don't you put on a wife beater and some thongs and start "Backing that thang up" So..handle your business Mrs. Busy Body... What were YOU doing on that site anyway. Seems like you were up to something yourself huh. Instead of snooping around, why don’t you put on a wife beater and some thongs and start "Backing that thang up" So..handle your business Mrs. Busy Body…

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