http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 23:02:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-556 HelenS Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-556 They are both to blame, but your ex wife should be taking responsibility for most of it. She was the one who stood before family/friends and said her vows. It was up to her to say no, even when he came on to her. Alcohol etc makes no difference, at the end of the day she had a choice and she chose to disrespect you by cheating. They are both to blame, but your ex wife should be taking responsibility for most of it. She was the one who stood before family/friends and said her vows. It was up to her to say no, even when he came on to her. Alcohol etc makes no difference, at the end of the day she had a choice and she chose to disrespect you by cheating.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-557 ouragon Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-557 Who vowed to be faithful to you? There is absolutely no mitigation in my opinion. If you can't stay faithful when you drink, you shouldn't drink. It's 100% on her. Who vowed to be faithful to you? There is absolutely no mitigation in my opinion. If you can’t stay faithful when you drink, you shouldn’t drink. It’s 100% on her.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-558 dragonflychild Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-558 I think too many people place blame on the alcohol instead of taking the blame themselves...at some you have to take responsibility for putting yourself in the situation whereby it may lead to problems. It takes two always...so they are both to blame. I think too many people place blame on the alcohol instead of taking the blame themselves…at some you have to take responsibility for putting yourself in the situation whereby it may lead to problems. It takes two always…so they are both to blame.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-559 jnjmommy Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-559 That there is no excuses for either person. BOTH are equally to blame. That there is no excuses for either person. BOTH are equally to blame.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-560 CHICKA Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-560 Personally I think it was her fault. 1. She was married and she put herself in a place she shouldn't have been. 2. She got drunk around single men. 3. She was married and she opened her legs. She shouldn't have gone out to a place where temptation was. Now, his at fault for chasing a married woman. He knew she was in a commitmed relationship and he played her. They are both cheaters, and your wife messed up big time. Personally I think it was her fault. 1. She was married and she put herself in a place she shouldn’t have been. 2. She got drunk around single men. 3. She was married and she opened her legs. She shouldn’t have gone out to a place where temptation was. Now, his at fault for chasing a married woman. He knew she was in a commitmed relationship and he played her. They are both cheaters, and your wife messed up big time.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-561 caaaad Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-561 Your kidding right. If you blame the guy that makes her a victim and she will always be a victim. Your relationship is with her not him. She was responsible for her actions period. But if she took responsibility and asked to work it out than that is a whole different set of circumstances. If I were married and there were strains on the marriage or she just screwed up and I believed she was truly remorseful than I may have sought couples counseling. That's me. Your kidding right. If you blame the guy that makes her a victim and she will always be a victim. Your relationship is with her not him. She was responsible for her actions period. But if she took responsibility and asked to work it out than that is a whole different set of circumstances. If I were married and there were strains on the marriage or she just screwed up and I believed she was truly remorseful than I may have sought couples counseling. That’s me.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-562 Have no fear my little Punk! Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-562 she shouldn't have been drinking w/o you. stop trying to think she is not at fault, she owed you respect whether you were away or not. Her loss you seem pretty smart and like a good guy, men like you do find good women eventually, and women like her end up like garbage. she shouldn’t have been drinking w/o you. stop trying to think she is not at fault, she owed you respect whether you were away or not. Her loss you seem pretty smart and like a good guy, men like you do find good women eventually, and women like her end up like garbage.

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-563 CookieQueen Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-563 They are both to blame if he knew she was unavailable, but you should move on, it really deosn't matter about these details...she cheated on you and could you ever forgive that and trust her again?...If not move on They are both to blame if he knew she was unavailable, but you should move on, it really deosn’t matter about these details…she cheated on you and could you ever forgive that and trust her again?…If not move on

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-564 Irene Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-564 Oh sweet man. YOUR EX is completely at fault. I don't give a damn what ANY reason. that could possibly make her look innocent, you do not cheat on your spouse. NOW, for the jerk who hit on her, that's another type of ass. One that needs to be kicked. You don't hit on someone else's wife, it's ignorant. Please find yourself a good woman and remember NONE of it is your fault. Good Luck Oh sweet man. YOUR EX is completely at fault. I don’t give a damn what ANY reason. that could possibly make her look innocent, you do not cheat on your spouse. NOW, for the jerk who hit on her, that’s another type of ass. One that needs to be kicked. You don’t hit on someone else’s wife, it’s ignorant.
Please find yourself a good woman and remember NONE of it is your fault.
Good Luck

]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime/comment-page-1#comment-565 Whatever, dude Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:41:37 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/infidelitywhos-more-to-blame-the-cheater-or-the-cheaters-partner-in-crime#comment-565 It's her responsibility to uphold her marriage vows. But the guy's a scumbag too for hitting on a married woman. Ultimately, it doesn't really matter who's the "most to blame," the fact is that she cheated, you divorced her, and you're moving on. Right? It’s her responsibility to uphold her marriage vows. But the guy’s a scumbag too for hitting on a married woman. Ultimately, it doesn’t really matter who’s the "most to blame," the fact is that she cheated, you divorced her, and you’re moving on. Right?

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