Comments on: How to get rid of an EX-girlfriend of my husbands? http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:50:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Myth_Understood http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2407 Myth_Understood Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2407 Is there a reason that he can't write her and say, "Look, Jane, I'm married, and I really wish you would please stop contacting me." I had a guy from my past look me up on facebook a couple of weeks ago and I told him that I have a wonderful man in my life and that I didn't think it was a) a good idea or b) appropriate to 'hang out'. He was nice about understanding my position and has left me alone. I told my man everything because I want him to trust me. Your guy is doing the same thing, and you should TRUST HIM. You contacting her would only make you look weak and insecure - not the best thing for his ex to think of when she thinks of you. Not only that, but if you call her up and ask her about the movies after SEVEN YEARS, you'll undermine your husband and everything he has done to build your trust in him. When he finds out (and he will), this is what he'll say: "WHAT !?!! You couldn't leave it alone, could you? What were you thinking, calling her? Do you not trust me?? What lies did she tell you?" NOTHING good can come from you contacting her. PLEASE - I'm begging you. Let him handle it ... but you might ask him why he hasn't lowered the boom. If he says he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, give him 'the look' and ask him 'but baby, what about my feelings?' Then go over to him and give him a nice, hot sexy kiss that lasts longer than 10 seconds, and while you're kissing him, give him a nice squeeze somewhere that he'll appreciate. THAT is how you get him to see things your way. Now, go find him, you hot sexy thing :D Is there a reason that he can’t write her and say, "Look, Jane, I’m married, and I really wish you would please stop contacting me."

I had a guy from my past look me up on facebook a couple of weeks ago and I told him that I have a wonderful man in my life and that I didn’t think it was a) a good idea or b) appropriate to ‘hang out’. He was nice about understanding my position and has left me alone. I told my man everything because I want him to trust me. Your guy is doing the same thing, and you should TRUST HIM.

You contacting her would only make you look weak and insecure - not the best thing for his ex to think of when she thinks of you. Not only that, but if you call her up and ask her about the movies after SEVEN YEARS, you’ll undermine your husband and everything he has done to build your trust in him. When he finds out (and he will), this is what he’ll say: "WHAT !?!! You couldn’t leave it alone, could you? What were you thinking, calling her? Do you not trust me?? What lies did she tell you?" NOTHING good can come from you contacting her.

PLEASE - I’m begging you. Let him handle it … but you might ask him why he hasn’t lowered the boom. If he says he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings, give him ‘the look’ and ask him ‘but baby, what about my feelings?’ Then go over to him and give him a nice, hot sexy kiss that lasts longer than 10 seconds, and while you’re kissing him, give him a nice squeeze somewhere that he’ll appreciate. THAT is how you get him to see things your way.

Now, go find him, you hot sexy thing :D

]]> By: Queen of Beer http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2409 Queen of Beer Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2409 I think the whole "he went to the movies with her" sounds a lot fishy. Sounds like something happened and she keeps trying to contact him because of that. I think the whole "he went to the movies with her" sounds a lot fishy. Sounds like something happened and she keeps trying to contact him because of that.

]]> By: MamaLuna http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2408 MamaLuna Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2408 Why doesn't he email her that he is happily married and does not think that it is appropriate for the two of them to keep in touch out of respect for his wife and their marriage. And then block her from everything..facebook, email, cell phone, home phone. Why doesn’t he email her that he is happily married and does not think that it is appropriate for the two of them to keep in touch out of respect for his wife and their marriage.
And then block her from everything..facebook, email, cell phone, home phone.

]]> By: ilikerice http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2410 ilikerice Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2410 Just tell him to block her. If he blocks her, that will make his profile invisible to her. That way she can't even try to contact him anymore. If he won't do it then you should. Just go into his account and block her, tell her to back off and block her. There is no reason for them to be talking. Just tell him to block her. If he blocks her, that will make his profile invisible to her. That way she can’t even try to contact him anymore. If he won’t do it then you should. Just go into his account and block her, tell her to back off and block her. There is no reason for them to be talking.

]]> By: worried in wisconsin http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2411 worried in wisconsin Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2411 let him handle it. he dont sound interested in her anyway. let him handle it. he dont sound interested in her anyway.

]]> By: one girl in a big world http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2412 one girl in a big world Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2412 i think something did happen between them..the first red flag that went up for me while I was reading your post is why would your husband (or any man) bother to tell his wife an ex GF was sending him messages over FB it was nothing he would not have bothered to tell you unless he trying to be one step ahead of something....this is just my own women inutiton i think something did happen between them..the first red flag that went up for me while I was reading your post is why would your husband (or any man) bother to tell his wife an ex GF was sending him messages over FB it was nothing he would not have bothered to tell you unless he trying to be one step ahead of something….this is just my own women inutiton

]]> By: Precious http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2413 Precious Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2413 Honey, yes get involved on FB!!! Send her a nice little message stating this is (your name) and I am (his name) wife. I would appreciate if you would not contact us by the way of FB, yahoo. or whatever. I know you and ?? went to the movie together and kissed. I have forgiven him and we do not wish to have you in our lives. Tell her this is OUR FACEBOOK and NO we don't want to be your friend.WE SHARE EVERYTHING!!!! Or//Have your husband send the same message and tell her he would appreciate if she will not contact him in any form because it upsets wifey. If he respects you and have no dealings with this young lady he should be able to handle it as well. Please don't be surprise if she has a come back for you...and him..He may not be telling you the whole truth. Honey, yes get involved on FB!!! Send her a nice little message stating this is (your name) and I am (his name) wife. I would appreciate if you would not contact us by the way of FB, yahoo. or whatever. I know you and ?? went to the movie together and kissed. I have forgiven him and we do not wish to have you in our lives. Tell her this is OUR FACEBOOK and NO we don’t want to be your friend.WE SHARE EVERYTHING!!!! Or//Have your husband send the same message and tell her he would appreciate if she will not contact him in any form because it upsets wifey. If he respects you and have no dealings with this young lady he should be able to handle it as well. Please don’t be surprise if she has a come back for you…and him..He may not be telling you the whole truth.

]]> By: daljack -a girl http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-2414 daljack -a girl Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:44 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comment-2414 Just from reading your main question....you shouldn't get rid of her. He should have done that before you got married. He's the one who is pissing you off. Once he tells her how things are and that he wants nothing more to do with her.....and means it then you won't have a problem. Just from reading your main question….you shouldn’t get rid of her. He should have done that before you got married.

He’s the one who is pissing you off. Once he tells her how things are and that he wants nothing more to do with her…..and means it then you won’t have a problem.

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