Comments on: How long can a woman go without sex or orgasm?

By: livetall1

livetall1 — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

women can go a long time without it - sex is more emotional for us - i stopped having sex with my husband casue he just started pissing me off too much with his behavior outside of the bedroom - we would fight constantly then he would expect me to go to bed at night and have sex with him - it was too much of a roller coaster - how are things outside of the bedroom for you two? that could have something to do with it.

By: G. C

G. C — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

women can go on for years .. they are vampires

By: Jenna D

Jenna D — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

I went over 10 months without having sex with my husband (Hes in the military so go ahead and put 2 and 2 together there)….I did not masturbate, did not cheat or anything….Did you ever thing she might be depressed???

By: tiggermouse73

tiggermouse73 — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

for me about a year i guess hubby is an ass he dont look at me

but when i do once the Os flow cant stop til we stop any contact

By: Eric C

Eric C — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

she is lying, she does masturbate.

By: cute1

cute1 — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

i dont know,i would have blown up by now.i got to have it 3-5 times a week!!!

By: Me

Me — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

she should be checked out by her gynocologist
sex is very important maybe you need to spice up forplay candles ,bubble bath,massage in the middle of the day

By: cstinkerbell6969

cstinkerbell6969 — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

Im here to say that alot of women WILL not admit they masturbate no matter what! Some see it as Tabu and WRONG even though its a natural part of life! Im willing to bet you atleast once a week she is ummmmmm doing the job by herself. The signs all point to her being loyal to you. Thats a good start! Try romance! Men respond more to the physical like a naked body while women respond more with emotion and feeling! We need to FEEL loved and special. Run her a hot candle lite bubble bath with a glass of wine and let her soak in peace and quiet. Then take some scented lotion and give her a back rub she will never forget. Let her know this is NOT a lead up to sex! Dont try anything sexual during all of this and Im willing to bet she will come to you! You obviously love her and she loves you so please dont waste time with arguments and petty fights- hold each other and love each other and enjpy your life together!!!!! Good luck to you! THIS could just be menapause too. I had hysterectomy like 3 years ago and I use to want sex 5 times a week! After surgery I could go a month without even thinking about it! My hubby didnt do anything wrong- it was just my body! Now that Im on hormones its back to 5 times a week! THANK GOD! Try to convince her to see her gynocologist and he will definetely get her back on track if the romance doesnt work!

By: sweetgal63

sweetgal63 — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

Well..If she does not talk about it ..that is a problem and I really don’t blame you for cheating. It’s not right but by cheating, i think you are adding to the problem. you don’t need that now. Sit with her and tell her how you feel and demand an answer and tell her it’s affecting your marriage. She cannot do this to you. If you tell her that you cheated..it will be over so maybe you should not.

Maybe she has become depressed?

By: pisceslady a

pisceslady a — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:41:43 +0000

i know its hard for the guys but us women can go without it for months, i guess we’re under stress tired busy with kids etc, and some of us ladies has lost our sex drive…i don’t give it to my husband that often i need to get it in a good mood for it..lol..oh well i hope all goes well