Comments on: How do you feel about his situation? http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:46:16 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Fred http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/comment-page-1#comment-2446 Fred Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:02 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comment-2446 You have ever right to be upset. You should also address this issue to your husband. Have a serious talk with him that this is not right. It appears that your husband is definitely a great man to care for a child that's not his. It is right that your husband should inform the other man that he is the father of that child. Since his mother is being wicked and refuse to disclose such responsibility. Therefore, you husband have been responsible and show cause with copy of the paternity confirming the child is your husband's son and is the other man's child. You husband can step away now and leave the responsibility to his ex-wife and her affairs. Also, I suggest that you get counseling for yourself to ensure this doesn't affect your relationship with you and your husband. By getting counseling, you will be able to communicate more effectively with your husband in helping him to help the child communicate with his biological father. I understand that you and your husband had gone through a lot, but it appears that he too needs counseling. The reason I say this is because your husband may feel some kind of guilt and makes him feel that he need to support and assist his ex-wife. Your husband does need help. The best way to help and support your husband is to encourage him to see a marriage counselor for himself and if he wants you to join him, do so. And let your husband know that you are getting counseling for yourself as well, so he would know that it’s ok to get counseling. I trust all will work out. The truth of this whole matter is that the child needs to see his biological father. You have ever right to be upset. You should also address this issue to your husband. Have a serious talk with him that this is not right. It appears that your husband is definitely a great man to care for a child that’s not his. It is right that your husband should inform the other man that he is the father of that child. Since his mother is being wicked and refuse to disclose such responsibility. Therefore, you husband have been responsible and show cause with copy of the paternity confirming the child is your husband’s son and is the other man’s child. You husband can step away now and leave the responsibility to his ex-wife and her affairs.

Also, I suggest that you get counseling for yourself to ensure this doesn’t affect your relationship with you and your husband. By getting counseling, you will be able to communicate more effectively with your husband in helping him to help the child communicate with his biological father.

I understand that you and your husband had gone through a lot, but it appears that he too needs counseling. The reason I say this is because your husband may feel some kind of guilt and makes him feel that he need to support and assist his ex-wife. Your husband does need help. The best way to help and support your husband is to encourage him to see a marriage counselor for himself and if he wants you to join him, do so. And let your husband know that you are getting counseling for yourself as well, so he would know that it’s ok to get counseling.

I trust all will work out. The truth of this whole matter is that the child needs to see his biological father.

]]> By: rise up the air http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/comment-page-1#comment-2447 rise up the air Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:02 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comment-2447 chilling down my spine that I am in your shoe. I don't know about your husband. He must deicde on this situation. chilling down my spine that I am in your shoe.

I don’t know about your husband. He must deicde on this situation.

]]> By: LovingBeingAMom http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/comment-page-1#comment-2448 LovingBeingAMom Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:02 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comment-2448 If he had a question as to whether or not the child was his back when they divorced, he should have requested a paternity test and then he would not have been ordered child support. Too late to do that now, so he's just going to have to step in and be the dad, like he has been all along. If he had a question as to whether or not the child was his back when they divorced, he should have requested a paternity test and then he would not have been ordered child support. Too late to do that now, so he’s just going to have to step in and be the dad, like he has been all along.

]]> By: snookum pookers http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/comment-page-1#comment-2449 snookum pookers Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:02 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comment-2449 what a lazy ass woman she is, i feel bad for the kid though it's sad he doesn't know his real dad is actually another guy... i went through wat ur going to my bf pays 450 a month in childsupport for a kids dat isn't his he got a dna test took it to court turns out he's not the dad n she was actually wit the kids real father so now she has to pay back all the childsupport, but were left wit broken hearts the truth hurts and nobody should b lied to i think the real father should know. what a lazy ass woman she is, i feel bad for the kid though it’s sad he doesn’t know his real dad is actually another guy… i went through wat ur going to my bf pays 450 a month in childsupport for a kids dat isn’t his he got a dna test took it to court turns out he’s not the dad n she was actually wit the kids real father so now she has to pay back all the childsupport, but were left wit broken hearts the truth hurts and nobody should b lied to i think the real father should know.

]]> By: George McCasland http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/comment-page-1#comment-2450 George McCasland Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:02 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comment-2450 Tell the man that, depending on the state, she can wait up until the boy is 23 years old to name hm as the father and get up to 18 years worth of child support, all at once. It does not matter where she lives now, as she could still move in the next ten years. Ohio and Michigan have the maximum with age 23 and 18 years retroactive. Most states she has until the child turns 18, but the child has at least one more year beyond that to file, or five years in Ohio. In California, the children of David Bren file for $148 million in retroactive child support. He needs to get his butt in gear and file a motion to force a paternity test, than set up a voluntary order, before she does and nails him to the wall. These links will help. Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook for Non-Custodial Parents http://ChildSupportRights.org http://ChildSupportQuiz.ChildSupportRights.org To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join, access all materials, and you associate with other fathers going through, and have already gone through, the same issues. We have an Educational Manual that teaches everything that needs to be known in addressing your legal issues. Mention your question here when asked why you want to join, as well as your state? http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse \\\\ Tell the man that, depending on the state, she can wait up until the boy is 23 years old to name hm as the father and get up to 18 years worth of child support, all at once. It does not matter where she lives now, as she could still move in the next ten years. Ohio and Michigan have the maximum with age 23 and 18 years retroactive. Most states she has until the child turns 18, but the child has at least one more year beyond that to file, or five years in Ohio. In California, the children of David Bren file for $148 million in retroactive child support.

He needs to get his butt in gear and file a motion to force a paternity test, than set up a voluntary order, before she does and nails him to the wall. These links will help.
Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org

Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook for Non-Custodial Parents
http://ChildSupportRights.org
http://ChildSupportQuiz.ChildSupportRights.org

To learn a father’s rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It’s free to join, access all materials, and you associate with other fathers going through, and have already gone through, the same issues. We have an Educational Manual that teaches everything that needs to be known in addressing your legal issues. Mention your question here when asked why you want to join, as well as your state?
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse \\\\

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