How do I make sure whether or not my girlfriend is faithful to me?
My heart is telling me that she is faithful to me and I trust her But mind and logic tells me otherwise.
The other day She flipped over something small and told me that we need a break but she is not breaking up with me. hours later she told me that she is going on a 7-day vacation ALONE!
My heart tells me that she is faithful and she just needs some space to herself. But my mind tells me thats just simple and obvious signs of infidelity.
Any advice from personal experience is much appreciated, as I am depressed and confused!
She flipped over because according to her I dont spend as much time with her as I should. So I’m not sure if I am smothering her!
To M R,
I am a guy! A very confused guy! I poseted 2 other question from my girlfriend perspective to see whether or not her actions make any sense! sorry about that but I am in hell right now! I invested So So much on this relationship and I dearly love her.
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Tags: girlfriend, heart, hell, logic, personal experience, perspective, relationship, signs of infidelity
August 15th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
You’re smothering her, back off.
August 15th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
JOIN THE REST OF THE SCREWED OVER BETRAYED MEN BUDDY
August 15th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
You will never be %100 sure so stop going crazy. Use your energy to do something more productive. If you stop chasing her, you become more attractive and she will be more interested in you. Just act like you don’t need her and she will be dying for your attention.
August 15th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
If you know she’s the kind of person that won’t cheat on you and you still think she’s cheating on you then you have trust issues. It may be these issues that’s pushing her away. What you need to do is be honest with yourself, and do things to show her she’s special. One way to make someone unfaithful is to ignore their needs, so keep her needs in mind, but also make sure you’re fulfilling your own. Make the relationship fun, make sure she doesn’t get bored. And above all else, don’t cheat on her! Often times we project our own insecurities onto others. If you’ve cheated on her or have thought about it, that could be the main reason for your distrust.
August 15th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
Your the ‘person" that pretends to be a guy AND a girl. And you always post the same type of question… why?
TROLL:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmV6iIo2YNEG_Ccffjs_oojty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100412130553AAWUivN
EDIT: Well if you told the truth - that she bolted to Mexico "alone" right after saying what she did to you, I don’t think you have a choice. You are being SHOVED around by a very un-caring woman that couldn’t care how you feel.
If she’s complaining you don’t spend time with her, how’s a weeks vacation "alone" going to help?
It’s over.