Comments on: How do I know if I'm ready? http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:43:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: anycrapuwant http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready/comment-page-1#comment-2400 anycrapuwant Sat, 09 Apr 2011 07:02:21 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready#comment-2400 Hi! Well right off the bat i can tell you're not ready now. You said that you're dealing with trust issues and what not from your previous relationship. And honey that is sooo 100% understandable. I think its great that ur able to admit that ur still dealing with things bc at least u know where u stand. Coming from a situation myself of infidelity i can assure you that it will stick with u for some time even after u think u've resolved this inner struggle. Without going off on a rant here (and i can lol) you'll know u r ready when u are able to put your heart on the line again fully dissolved of any of mistrust. when u begin to realize that losing this new man is not a price you're willing to pay for your jealousy or mistrust.In the end its either those issues or having him on your life. If u go into this too quickly u risk hurting him and disappointing yourself. Some of the signs that u are moving on i would have to say are when the trust issues that u r dealing with now do not arise when they normally would have. when you u catch yourself trusting again when u normally wouldnt you are on your way. In the end if youre dead serious and intent on going about it the complete way id look for counseling....its for YOUR happiness. Good luck! Hi! Well right off the bat i can tell you’re not ready now. You said that you’re dealing with trust issues and what not from your previous relationship. And honey that is sooo 100% understandable. I think its great that ur able to admit that ur still dealing with things bc at least u know where u stand. Coming from a situation myself of infidelity i can assure you that it will stick with u for some time even after u think u’ve resolved this inner struggle. Without going off on a rant here (and i can lol) you’ll know u r ready when u are able to put your heart on the line again fully dissolved of any of mistrust. when u begin to realize that losing this new man is not a price you’re willing to pay for your jealousy or mistrust.In the end its either those issues or having him on your life. If u go into this too quickly u risk hurting him and disappointing yourself. Some of the signs that u are moving on i would have to say are when the trust issues that u r dealing with now do not arise when they normally would have. when you u catch yourself trusting again when u normally wouldnt you are on your way. In the end if youre dead serious and intent on going about it the complete way id look for counseling….its for YOUR happiness. Good luck!

]]> By: lara http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready/comment-page-1#comment-2401 lara Sat, 09 Apr 2011 07:02:21 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready#comment-2401 You will be ready when u put the past behind u. You will be ready when u put the past behind u.

]]> By: Rebecca http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready/comment-page-1#comment-2402 Rebecca Sat, 09 Apr 2011 07:02:21 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready#comment-2402 Just take it slow with him. Don't punish him for what your husband did, but be careful. Just take it slow with him. Don’t punish him for what your husband did, but be careful.

]]> By: Momma http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready/comment-page-1#comment-2403 Momma Sat, 09 Apr 2011 07:02:21 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-i-know-if-im-ready#comment-2403 WOW. Unfortunately, life does not have a handbook! Take it SLOW..get to know yourself, and enjoy time being alone. If this guy truly wants and loves you, he will wait and play by your schedule. Trust me, I know it sucks arse, but space is what think you both need for awhile. I've been there and done that with a similiar situation....I messed it up by jumping in too quick cause i thought he was "the one". Don't let your lack of trust rule, but don't let it screw you over either. ARG. Trust him, but DON'T trust him. Life is funny, and a big ass contradiction, huh?. best wishes honey. ;) WOW.
Unfortunately, life does not have a handbook!

Take it SLOW..get to know yourself, and enjoy time being alone. If this guy truly wants and loves you, he will wait and play by your schedule.

Trust me, I know it sucks arse, but space is what think you both need for awhile. I’ve been there and done that with a similiar situation….I messed it up by jumping in too quick cause i thought he was "the one".

Don’t let your lack of trust rule, but don’t let it screw you over either.

ARG. Trust him, but DON’T trust him. Life is funny, and a big ass contradiction, huh?.

best wishes honey. ;)

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