How can I win my Sagittarius husband back?
My ex-husband is a Sag. We just got married last December 2008. After two months, I caught him cheating on me. He denied it. Eversince we got married, he been acting strange…somehow cold and indifferent. Last April 2009, I finally learned that he’s been having an affair with his coworker. It’s the same girl I caught him with the first time. His boss even confirmed their affair in the office. I did confront my ex-husband about it. He then gave a lot of excuses, blah blah. I told him to stop the affair. He said he did. So I gave him a chance to redeem himself. But he didn’t. Instead, he still showed signs of infidelity. Last June 2009, his behavior became worse…he didn’t come home for the first time. He said he slept over at his friend’s house. But when I asked his friend, he had no idea what my ex-husband was talking about. In short, he lied. The night he didn’t come home was my 27th birthday. It really broke my heart. =,( My mistake was, I got so angry that I slapped him on his face. He got so mad at me to point that he wanted to punch me. He finally admitted everything. He doesn’t love me anymore and he already has a gf. Then he kicked me out of the house. He dumped me just like that! It’s been almost 2 months now that we haven’t talked/seen each other. And I miss him…I must admit, I still do LOVE HIM. Are Sags really like that? Is there any possible way I can do to get my husband back? Do I still have any chance at all? I’m trying to stay positive here…HELP!!!
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August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Your husband cheated on you two months into your marriage and obviously never ended it as it’s been continuing throughout your marriage. He doesn’t love you. There is nothing here worth saving. How much disrespect, lying, cheating and dishonesty does he have to throw at you for you to say ENOUGH! You should not be asking how to get him back. You should be asking how to make yourself strong enough to walk away. Please see a counselor for some help.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Why would you want him, do you like to be tortured. I suggest you see a counselor to help you move on. It is dreadfully clear he wants nothing to do with you, regardless of his sign.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
You are a shame for all the women of this world!
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
My husband is a Sagitarrius as well and acts NOTHING like your husband. I think you got a bad apple and you’re not too smart by wanting him back. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He obviously wants nothing to do with you so move on.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Why are you still with him? Do you like being a doormat? He has proven he likes to cheat and will not stop. Leave him.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Get him back if you want him to keep breaking your heart. What do you love about him, anyway?
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Staying positive is staying away from someone who does not love you end of story.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
He cheated TWICE, and you still want him back? God, get a backbone and divorce this mega-loser. He has zero love or respect for you, file the papers so you can begon to move on.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
I am a Sagittarius but I doubt that my zodiac sign has anything to do with my character.
What concerns me is why you want to stay with a man who has clearly disrespected you, lied, cheated, and tells you that he doesn’t love you anymore. What’s the benefit in this relationship?
How do you define love? I do not call this love.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
I’m a sag (women) and no we do not act like that. Yes, it is hard for us to settle down because we are ‘free birds’, but once commited we are fully commited 110% to our partners. We are very loyal. And honestly, zodiac sign should have nothing to do with a person staying faithful to their spouse. I’m sorry your ex did this, but you really need to try and move on, it’s not healthy dwelling, and certainly not healthy getting back into a relationship with him.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
You need to read what you just sent out to us….. it’s a sad place to be right now, and you are wanting to run back into it with open arms. You need to keep the distance between the two of you and begin thinking more of yourself. You deserve better than he has ever given you. he has proven time and again that he can’t be faithful. this is not the life you want to live with. You need to hold your head up high and move forward in the new life without him. Much luck
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
This is not an astrological matter. Your ex is a jerk and consider yourself lucky that he has removed himself from your life. You don’t need this kind of drama and pain in your life. I understand you’re hurting right now and my suggestion is to take some time to mourn and get over the situation and then move on with your life. You will find somebody better.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
I dunno what to say except he’s a cheatin sagittarius dirtbag lol….but don’t hold that against all sags!!! smarten up
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
You’re married less than a year and he constantly cheats on you. You get angry and resort to physical abuse. He’s dumped you and taken up with someone else. Sorry to say this, but it doesn’t seem you truly understand what love is…. and neither does he. If you could ever get him back, chances are VERY GOOD you’ll be subject to more of what you’ve already gotten from him.
My advice is that you work on discovering what YOU need from a relationship. If trust, devotion, common goals, and the genuine desire to make a lasting relationship work are any part of what you need from a relationship, you’ll get over him without a second though and find someone who actually cares for you.
Thinking horoscopes, astrology, and zodiac signs govern how successful relationships are, or will be, is a sure fired way of continuing to make poor partner choices.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
What does being a Sagittarius have to do with anything?
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
Why would you want him back?
He doesn’t care about you, as he’s clearly illustrated. Also, he could have herpes or HIV.
He kicked you out? Check your divorce laws.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
got dumped by a jerk and you still love him and want him back is not trying to stay positive and logical. it was only last year you both got married, now he openly admitted his affair, has a gf on the side. it was not a good marriage to begin with. what is left to save?
it got nothing to do with sag. your slap is just adding reasons for him to play guilty trip on you. don’t be stupid… he deserves it.
August 11th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
if you do get him back he will only still cheat on you because he has mad it clear that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. just get over it. why would you still want to be with him anyway.