Comments on: How can I tell if he loves me even tho he 'chills' with other girls?

By: Poopsie Mellish

Poopsie Mellish — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 06:55:42 +0000

Listen here. some of us have friends of both gender, but you have all reason to be pissed off. When I invite male friends to dinner it goes with them having their spouse or date. I can understand giving them a ride home if everyone is not legal to drive. If they live close by get a cab. I can understand if people car pool to go to the grocery store and properly dressed. My neighbor is a single male and happened to be going too and offered me a ride and helped each other carry the groceries. He gave a lift to another of our neighbors that live on our street and he was joking about Driving Miss Daisies! If it is an innocent ride by mutual friends all is good. In our harsh weather we would see a friend shivering at the bus stop and offer a ride home.

By: fluffernut

fluffernut — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 06:55:42 +0000

He has lied to you, he has cheated on you…….and he won’t change. There is no trust, he blew it but you are too moon-eyed to see. Any messing with old flames and friends is sure signs this is not a trustable guy. It is not his male right to be screwing around. If he was truly a man he would not be doing this……..but he’s not mature or a man and surely not worth your concern. Forget this cheatin’ sack of poop and move on. Just because he has fondled you doesn’t make him something special.

By: Softtouchmale

Softtouchmale — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 06:55:42 +0000

Its really simple. If he’s in love with you, then he should at the very least have you chill with him and these old friends that happen to be women.

You should know who they are, and also know what he’s doing with them. And the only way to know any of that is to meet them and chill with them.

Now the other problem is of course, there are insecurities. And if he has to lie about where he’s at and what he’s doing with them, it may not be because he’s having sex with them; he just may not want to go into long, detailed explanations as to what happened.

Despite that, I’m guessing you’d rather have the long, detailed explanations, which even if true, would still not make enough sense to get past your suspicions.

Therefore, you have to tell him you’re feeling insecure about these things and suddenly have some trust and faith issues.

If he can’t handle that and come up with a mutually satisfactory solution to these issues, then it won’t work out in the future.