History repeats its self.?
i’m currently in a 5 year relationship, and i assume that she is cheating on me with the man she left for me. the signs point to infidelity but i don’t have concrete evidence, i have been cheated on in the past by previous girlfriends and its has always been a major part of my defensive mechanics. i dont want too accuse then again i don’t want to be a fool and be caught out there like a deer in headlights. how should i approach this situation, i’m still very much in love with her.
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September 29th, 2010 at 4:53 pm
Rainier,
Approach the situation from a different angle; ask yourself why you chose women who cheat?
In order to yank it out, it is time for some major soul searching to uncover the root of the problem.
I recommend staying away from relationships for a while, and joining a group in yoga, meditation, discussion, literary society, spiritual quest or a hobby.
Not only will it take your mind off the woman who is hurting you, but it will also give you a chance to discover yourself - and who knows? Perhaps a healthier love interest!?
Sincerely,
Ms. Miche ; })