Comments on: Here's One for you all infidelity or just looking ? http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:40:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: yNOT? http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-840 yNOT? Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-840 ...do the right thing, dump the loser heal yourself and protect yourself and your children...and grow stronger... yNOT? …do the right thing, dump the loser heal yourself and protect
yourself and your children…and grow stronger…
yNOT?

]]> By: yepper http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-841 yepper Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-841 If he hasn't ridden another horse, he's getting the saddle out of the barn. If he hasn’t ridden another horse, he’s getting the saddle out of the barn.

]]> By: Cochy http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-842 Cochy Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-842 That IS infidelity. It's cheating and completely inappropriate. Obviously there are problems inthe relationship. If I still really loved this man, I'd sit down with him and we'd try to work on our problems together. Go to counseling and make sure he never does it again... if he does. That's it. It's over and I'm gone. If he refuses to cooperate and even see a counselor, I'd leave his butt. There's no way I'd let anyone take me for a ride like that. This is why it's SO important to be independent. That way you don't get "trapped" in a bad situation just because of a lack of money. That IS infidelity. It’s cheating and completely inappropriate. Obviously there are problems inthe relationship. If I still really loved this man, I’d sit down with him and we’d try to work on our problems together. Go to counseling and make sure he never does it again… if he does. That’s it. It’s over and I’m gone. If he refuses to cooperate and even see a counselor, I’d leave his butt. There’s no way I’d let anyone take me for a ride like that. This is why it’s SO important to be independent. That way you don’t get "trapped" in a bad situation just because of a lack of money.

]]> By: Katie W http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-843 Katie W Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-843 Looking at what happens to cross under your nose is one thing (like sitting in a mall and you see his eyes track a girl going by, then back to you -- can also lead to trouble, but if passive looking is all, then likely no major problems)... but actively seeking out things to look at and talk to, as he's doing, is something else entirely. That's assuming that he actually is being truthful and that's all that's going on ... which seems awfully odd. People generally don't sign up for such sites just to "look". Looking at what happens to cross under your nose is one thing (like sitting in a mall and you see his eyes track a girl going by, then back to you — can also lead to trouble, but if passive looking is all, then likely no major problems)… but actively seeking out things to look at and talk to, as he’s doing, is something else entirely. That’s assuming that he actually is being truthful and that’s all that’s going on … which seems awfully odd. People generally don’t sign up for such sites just to "look".

]]> By: dragonfire http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-844 dragonfire Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-844 he is looking for the hook up period you caught him and he is backpedaling no one pays for a membership unless they have intent to follow through that would be live hiring a hooker and all you want to do it talk... yeah.... right..... he is looking for the hook up
period
you caught him and he is backpedaling
no one pays for a membership unless they have intent to follow through
that would be live hiring a hooker and all you want to do it talk…

yeah…. right…..

]]> By: shyanne http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-845 shyanne Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-845 sheesh, i asked the same question and got a lot of thoughtful answers. same thing happened with me, although my bf never would admit it. i printed out the profile and he just said it sure sounded like him, but it wasn't. i still believe it's him. anyhow, he admitted that he did have an ad..and that he believes it's "ok to look". i don't agree. i don't think you pose as single and looking when you are living with someone for three years and supposedly love each other. i believe my bf and your spouse are looking alright...for whoever they can cheat with. i am looking also..for a place to rent so i can get out. sheesh, i asked the same question and got a lot of thoughtful answers.
same thing happened with me, although my bf never would admit it. i printed out the profile and he just said it sure sounded like him, but it wasn’t. i still believe it’s him.
anyhow, he admitted that he did have an ad..and that he believes it’s "ok to look". i don’t agree. i don’t think you pose as single and looking when you are living with someone for three years and supposedly love each other.
i believe my bf and your spouse are looking alright…for whoever they can cheat with.
i am looking also..for a place to rent so i can get out.

]]> By: Bilinda G http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-846 Bilinda G Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-846 Whoa, I think I would go into the history and I would hit the print screen for each and every page he signed up for something like that, and I would have a field day with my lawyer. No, what the hell is he looking for. Na, he got caught and thought some lame as* lie was going to cover it up. WHEW. Couldn't handle that. I believe before I left though I would have to clean out some bank accounts. Whoa, I think I would go into the history and I would hit the print screen for each and every page he signed up for something like that, and I would have a field day with my lawyer. No, what the hell is he looking for. Na, he got caught and thought some lame as* lie was going to cover it up. WHEW. Couldn’t handle that. I believe before I left though I would have to clean out some bank accounts.

]]> By: SANDRA http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-847 SANDRA Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-847 Print out the bank statements, the bills, and roll them into a tight tube. Hold it tight and tape it shut so it makes a nice hard baton....Then find your hubby and tell him what is in the tube....reach out and slap him on the nose and repeatedly say "no no bad dog!!!" He basically is $hitting on your carpet and getting away with it. He needs to have enough respect for you to come clean and stop his behavior. Furthermore explain to him he is stuck with you and it is up to him how good or bad he makes that. I told my husband once to go ahead and roll the dice, to try his hand at treating me bad because I told him I am not going to leave him but it sure will be a looooong 80 plus years of marriage puting up with me if he treats me bad LOL. I won't stop him from leaving mind you, but I won't lift a finger or spend a penny to help him (he is super cheapskate so that hit him where it hurt LOL) and I told him I would keep his last name just to spite him:) Remind your husband of who you are. You are his partner and mother of his kids if you have any and that deserves some respect and committment damnit! Print out the bank statements, the bills, and roll them into a tight tube. Hold it tight and tape it shut so it makes a nice hard baton….Then find your hubby and tell him what is in the tube….reach out and slap him on the nose and repeatedly say "no no bad dog!!!"
He basically is $hitting on your carpet and getting away with it. He needs to have enough respect for you to come clean and stop his behavior. Furthermore explain to him he is stuck with you and it is up to him how good or bad he makes that. I told my husband once to go ahead and roll the dice, to try his hand at treating me bad because I told him I am not going to leave him but it sure will be a looooong 80 plus years of marriage puting up with me if he treats me bad LOL. I won’t stop him from leaving mind you, but I won’t lift a finger or spend a penny to help him (he is super cheapskate so that hit him where it hurt LOL) and I told him I would keep his last name just to spite him:) Remind your husband of who you are. You are his partner and mother of his kids if you have any and that deserves some respect and committment damnit!

]]> By: celticbuddha http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-848 celticbuddha Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-848 a friend of mine's lil sister went through that exact same thing a few years ago. she's now divorced. but let me tell ya, he was STILL trying to get money from HER to pay for all of his subscriptions while they were separated and getting a divorce. meanwhile she's working full time, going to school full time, taking care and financially providing for their 2 kids alone! i swear, some people are just purely idiotic and selfish! a friend of mine’s lil sister went through that exact same thing a few years ago. she’s now divorced. but let me tell ya, he was STILL trying to get money from HER to pay for all of his subscriptions while they were separated and getting a divorce. meanwhile she’s working full time, going to school full time, taking care and financially providing for their 2 kids alone! i swear, some people are just purely idiotic and selfish!

]]> By: Paul http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-849 Paul Fri, 07 May 2010 21:25:19 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/heres-one-for-you-all-infidelity-or-just-looking#comment-849 Paying for a premium membership is going way out of bounds. I might be able to understand someone just clicking on things out of curiosity, but paying for it? You have a right to be alarmed and suspicious and your hubby needs to go the extra mile now to be an open book and play everything straight. Paying for a premium membership is going way out of bounds. I might be able to understand someone just clicking on things out of curiosity, but paying for it? You have a right to be alarmed and suspicious and your hubby needs to go the extra mile now to be an open book and play everything straight.

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