Have you ever felt raped of your relationship before?
My husband and I since day one has never had the chance to have a personal relationship to love each other. There was always some negative people in the middle: putting him down, putting me down, or trying to get him to cheat on me. I’ve noticed signs of him doing me wrong and just following the crowd to put me down. And now there’s a possibility that he’s betrayed me with someone else. I don’t know if he did or didn’t, but what would it mean to you that if your man who was away from you began to show signs of wanting to throw you away and infidelity. You try to ignore the signs of infidelity, but later on he reveals that where he was, there were some females who he knew from last year, and he brags to you, "These females are hating on me, It could to have been them, but I am with you." If there was nothing between him and these females, why would he brag about it? If there was nothing, why would he care about whether they liked him or not? Doesn’t it imply that he’s having some kind of competition thing or something? That something is going on or has gone on? I don’t know how to word it? What do you think? Please help me.
By "raped", I mean violated. How? By people interferring into my relationship to ruin it.
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Tags: crowd, females, personal relationship, signs of infidelity
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
there will always be others sitting outside of marriages just waiting to help us ruin ourselves. There will always be ppl willing to get involved with married men/women and temptations all around us. It’s up to us to stay out of those situations and fight off those temptations. So these ppl aren’t the problem… if he IS being wayward, it’s your husband’s doing and choice.
I think you should bring this up and talk to him about it. Straight out ask him if there is anything you should know about because you are feeling a bit uneasy.
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
what has rape got to do with it?, i dont understand your question.
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
rape an ape while wearing a cape
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
That happened to my friend and she asked me the same question and i told her that i think he’s just trying to make you jealous because he might want you to notice him more and want you to do something to make the relationahip spazzy lol
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April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
He’s the one doing the raping here,
He’s robbing you of your relationship
not the other people interfering.
My fiance says the same stuff:
”I trust YOU but not them dirty sluts out there”
For the dirty sluts out there to have any sort of chance
guys need to get with them and make a few manouvres
so really you shouldn’t worry if you trust your man.
But you don’t and neither would I!
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
if you and your husband have never had a real personal relationship with each other why on earth did you two get married? not to be mean but i sure want to know the person i end up marrying inside and out! i don’t have to know all the crap and ignorance about the teenage years but to have a good sturdy relationship with the man is a helluva start! and if people keep interfering tell them to shut the hell up! your relationship has nothing to do with them, and sounds to me like you and your husband need to sit down and have a nice long talk about all that is going on and figure out if you really have a future with this man… Good Luck!
April 26th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
rape an ape wearing a cape on a lape in a drape. i don’t even know what that meant???