Infidelity Signs of a Cheating Spouse or Cheating Partner http://infidelitysigns.net How to look for signs of infidelity. Thu, 19 May 2011 16:31:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 en hourly 1 Is it a good sign that my husband will travel with me? http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-a-good-sign-that-my-husband-will-travel-with-me http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-a-good-sign-that-my-husband-will-travel-with-me#comments Thu, 19 May 2011 16:31:05 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-a-good-sign-that-my-husband-will-travel-with-me My husband and I have been having marital problems due to his infidelity for the past 2 years. I have been trying my hardest to rebuild our life together.

He has agreed to go on a vacation with me for Christmas. I told him that I just want to go somewhere, anywhere and he told me to plan the trip. He suggested that we go see his parents for the holidays. I am hoping that it will be a romantic week together. What do you think?

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/is-it-a-good-sign-that-my-husband-will-travel-with-me/feed Is she CHEATING??? I found a picture of…? http://infidelitysigns.net/is-she-cheating-i-found-a-picture-of http://infidelitysigns.net/is-she-cheating-i-found-a-picture-of#comments Mon, 16 May 2011 02:12:19 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/is-she-cheating-i-found-a-picture-of Girfriend might be cheating…?
Ok, heres the situation:

I am deployed right now, and have not communicated with my gf in a month. In the begining months, we spoke over the phone, over email, and through letters all the time. Now its been quite, and whenever I call, I get no answer–she dosent even email me a reply. So I start investigating…

Our shared netflix account has not been used in over a month–something she has used everday until then. I sent her flowers and called on easter, and still nothing! My family has not heard from her, and I have a really bad feeling overall.

Ok and now facebook:

I find this weird game/survey whatever thing called smileys thats posted on her wall that says the results of what ever she did are "Im feelng naughty tonight!" with a winking smiley face and her comment of "somebody help!!!" this is followed by a new friend named bobby. Then there is a message of her stating that everyone needs to stop being mean and leave her alone. Also on her wall is a change in the "interested in" part of her profile (which shows men now). I look at the top of her profile and her "in a relationship with" part is missing! (yet doent say single/avaliable either).

I go to her pictures and my stomach really sinks.

She has pictures of her, another guy, and this bobby guy (pictures are dated before she had him as a friend btw) at a lake drinking beer.

One picture is of them too laughing which she must have taken. the caption reads "lil bro likes the tit action! he doent blush!" Im like ???

The second is of her SITTING IN HIS LAP with the "bobby likes this" tag on it.

And the third is of her in a bikini posing with her back arched facing the camera and hands behind her head. (yes its pretty provoc)

Also I have asked her to send me things I need/want which she hasnt.
She also used to be bad with drugs before she met me, and Im afraid that makes her suspectable to inflence.

Optimistically, maybe shes just too busy too watch movies (oh we live in the country–not alot of nearby activities), maybe she was just posing for fun (she used to model), and maybe she was trying to take a really close picture with the guy or something.

But I cant get over all this because shes the jealous type and if I did any version of this she would become ENRAGED.

I also looked up the top 10 signs of infidelity and found the previous info to fill in 9 of those.

Am I being paranoid???
Do I exploit this?
Is this obvious or am I over analyzing?

I still have about 4 months to go…not good stress to have on top of whats already going on

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/is-she-cheating-i-found-a-picture-of/feed Should I be nervous about my wife going to her sister's bachelorette party? http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-be-nervous-about-my-wife-going-to-her-sisters-bachelorette-party http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-be-nervous-about-my-wife-going-to-her-sisters-bachelorette-party#comments Thu, 12 May 2011 11:40:57 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-be-nervous-about-my-wife-going-to-her-sisters-bachelorette-party We have been married for 9 years and no history of infidelity. We have 3 fantastic kids and I would rate our relationship as rock solid 10 out of 10. No complaints. Now that our youngest is three we are out of baby making mode. My fear that she will see what the single life is like again and be tempted. I have read too many horror stories about mid life crisis and now my brain is spinning. However, I have no signs of suspicion whatsoever. It has been business as usual over the last few weeks.

They have a bar crawl planned in the city at some pretty high end clubs and bars. It is not her vibe and I fear that the alcohol may make her make dumb decisions. Her sister and her friends are in their mid 20’s and know what they are doing. But my wife is 33 and like I said has been busy being a great mother and not used to the party scene. Why do I have this pit in my stomach? I would say I trust her but obviously I dont since I am writing this. She is so sweet and I feel sometimes that makes her very naive. Especially if she gets goaded by some 20 somethings ready to party. My wife is incredibly sexy when she dresses it up and her sister is gorgeous along with her friends. Has anyone experienced what I feel?

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/should-i-be-nervous-about-my-wife-going-to-her-sisters-bachelorette-party/feed Girfriend might be cheating…? http://infidelitysigns.net/girfriend-might-be-cheating http://infidelitysigns.net/girfriend-might-be-cheating#comments Sun, 08 May 2011 11:49:06 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/girfriend-might-be-cheating Ok, heres the situation:

I am deployed right now, and have not communicated with my gf in a month. In the begining months, we spoke over the phone, over email, and through letters all the time. Now its been quite, and whenever I call, I get no answer–she dosent even email me a reply. So I start investigating…

Our shared netflix account has not been used in over a month–something she has used everday until then. I sent her flowers and called on easter, and still nothing! My family has not heard from her, and I have a really bad feeling overall.

Ok and now facebook:

I find this weird game/survey whatever thing called smileys thats posted on her wall that says the results of what ever she did are "Im feelng naughty tonight!" with a winking smiley face and her comment of "somebody help!!!" this is followed by a new friend named bobby. Then there is a message of her stating that everyone needs to stop being mean and leave her alone. Also on her wall is a change in the "interested in" part of her profile (which shows men now). I look at the top of her profile and her "in a relationship with" part is missing! (yet doent say single/avaliable either).

I go to her pictures and my stomach really sinks.

She has pictures of her, another guy, and this bobby guy (pictures are dated before she had him as a friend btw) at a lake drinking beer.

One picture is of them too laughing which she must have taken. the caption reads "lil bro likes the tit action! he doent blush!" Im like ???

The second is of her SITTING IN HIS LAP with the "bobby likes this" tag on it.

And the third is of her in a bikini posing with her back arched facing the camera and hands behind her head. (yes its pretty provoc)

Also I have asked her to send me things I need/want which she hasnt.
She also used to be bad with drugs before she met me, and Im afraid that makes her suspectable to inflence.

Optimistically, maybe shes just too busy too watch movies (oh we live in the country–not alot of nearby activities), maybe she was just posing for fun (she used to model), and maybe she was trying to take a really close picture with the guy or something.

But I cant get over all this because shes the jealous type and if I did any version of this she would become ENRAGED.

I also looked up the top 10 signs of infidelity and found the previous info to fill in 9 of those.

Am I being paranoid???
Do I exploit this?
Is this obvious or am I over analyzing?

I still have about 4 months to go…not good stress to have on top of whats already going on

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/girfriend-might-be-cheating/feed HELP IM LOOSING IT……..My husband has another child? http://infidelitysigns.net/help-im-loosing-itmy-husband-has-another-child http://infidelitysigns.net/help-im-loosing-itmy-husband-has-another-child#comments Wed, 04 May 2011 21:21:35 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/help-im-loosing-itmy-husband-has-another-child I have, what I thought I had was a wonderful loving husband and family. I have been married for 11 years, just found out this last weekend that my husband had an affair about 8 years ago that lasted for about 3 or 4 years and that there was a child that was produced out of this relationship. They way I found out we are having a house built, my sister and I are cleaning out our current attic to have a g-sale, I found this metal box that I had never seen before. We managed to open it up and found pictures of a child and a strange woman and my husband. AT the zoo, in Paris France, in Chicago, EVERYWHERE….bunches and bunches of pictures…the birth of the baby and he was there right by her, there was a letter in there that came from the States attys office for a junction for payment of child support.

Clue: HE has been acting rather strange for the last year and we have had some horrible fights that I for some reason really didnt even understand why we were even fighting… bare with me, I am torn apart. I just dont think I can go on.

All week we have fought, and screamed, and I hit him and he would just sit there and say he was sorry and he cant live with out me and our children, he said yes it was wrong and it was along time ago and he seen what he had that is why he stayed. But for me its just as good as if it was happening right now. The lady has since married and my husband gave up his parental rights. I kicked him out after we fought all week day and night and I dont want him around me, nothing, I will never love him ever again, I want him gone.

What should I do?Please dont be mean to me and tell me I am stupid, that I should have seen the signs, but now it makes since, he too has been struggling with giving his child away and didnt want to. For he is a great father to our children. That is why he was so upset this last year, she demanded that he give up his rights or she was coming to me with the proof of infidelity before she married. With that said he did just that, he gave up his rights, I now know that she begged him for the last 6 or so years to leave me so that they could be a family, he wouldnt so now she finally got married but she has threatened him with this "crime" of cheating in order to lure him and he didnt want to give up his child. I am in the middle of a stupid stupid situation. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

LIKE TO ADD: My sister is using my yahoo Q&A for all that wonders if this is some weird question. She doesn’t have yahoo so I told her to get on my Yahoo Q&A and get some out side sources opinion. Sorry for the confusion. Thanks for all your answers they have really been an eye opener for her. Everyone of you have various views on this matter and it has ripped all of us apart. So again I want to thank each and every one of you for your word of confidence. I wish I could pick all of you for a best answer…So if you don’t mind, I am going to let the answers vote…thanks again. The Hope family

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/help-im-loosing-itmy-husband-has-another-child/feed IS MY GIRL CHEATING ON ME? I need some investigation tips. Please help!? http://infidelitysigns.net/is-my-girl-cheating-on-me-i-need-some-investigation-tips-please-help http://infidelitysigns.net/is-my-girl-cheating-on-me-i-need-some-investigation-tips-please-help#comments Sat, 30 Apr 2011 11:41:14 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/is-my-girl-cheating-on-me-i-need-some-investigation-tips-please-help There are many signs, such as missing in action, never laying cell phone down, turning ringer off. Also, she gets agitated if I ask her where she’s been or call to ask how long before she gets home. I had access to her phone records a few months ago & saw that she was dealing with an ex. She claims it was strictly business since he’s a mortician & a friend of hers died. She has since locked out the access to her records. She doesn’t work or go to school, but always have so much to do, without me! I just need some tips on how to dig for the truth without seeming like a stalker. We have trust issues & have had our share of infidelity, mostly on her part. I feel we may be parting ways soon & I need some closure. I don’t want to hire an investigator. PLEASE HELP!…..we’ve been together for 11.5 years

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/is-my-girl-cheating-on-me-i-need-some-investigation-tips-please-help/feed How do you feel about his situation? http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation#comments Tue, 26 Apr 2011 11:44:01 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation My husband has a child that is not biologically his. He found out 13 years later and his ex wife kept telling him she would take it to her grave when he asked her repeatedly about the father of the child. He knew that the father was her sister’s husband because it was alot of signs and he had proof of them having sex when he was away on business and when he came home early from work due to being sick saw her performing oral sex on him. The thing is I want some advice on this situation. The boy is clearly having some behavioral issues and running away from home and etc. but my husband ex don’t want to tell his biological father the truth. My husband said it was times that the bio father had anger issues and he needs to step in. So my husband is going to call and let the man know. What do you think could happen in this situation? It bothers me that when my husband was divorcing her before we got married of course she wanted to take him for everything and got nothing due to her infidelity. But this man is the father of her child and she don’t want to do anything let alone tell him. I am really disturb by that! Here it is my husband took care of her, got her a house, she was half working, and won’t clean or cook. He was working and going to school and he didn’t deserve this. He is with a better women now but still I am hurt and I don’t know why it is hurting me on certain issues a little more then my husband? He is hurt too, but it is like I show it more then him. He was very upset when the test came back. Out of the four kids only three of them is his and the judge ordered her to move out of the house in 120 days and he don’t have to pay child support for the other kids due to them being adults. And the youngest one he pays 0 a month for her and the other boy is not is biologically so they are not making him pay. I am just disturb with this. Any advice. Do you think he should tell him? or what? His ex wants him to do everything for the boy as if he is his biologically and then she wants to control when he can see him. My husband said no matter what he will be in the boy life but it is a control issue unless she wants money for him. We feel she needs to get the other man involved too! Since from time to time she is still sneaking to have sex with him.
My husband did get a paternity test before the divorce, and no he doesn’t pay child support for the son that is not his biological. But he feels and I do too that the biological father needs to know that this boy is his to help with his anger issues since he had them too. My husband ex don’t want him to know and etc. I am mad that you can try to sue my husband for child support, alimony, and to keep the house. But this guy is the father of your child and you don’t want to do anything towards him. We have the written documents of the paternity I am just seeking advice on my husband telling this guy.

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/how-do-you-feel-about-his-situation/feed Why is it that there is such a high rate of divorce in the US? http://infidelitysigns.net/why-is-it-that-there-is-such-a-high-rate-of-divorce-in-the-us http://infidelitysigns.net/why-is-it-that-there-is-such-a-high-rate-of-divorce-in-the-us#comments Fri, 22 Apr 2011 11:54:14 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/why-is-it-that-there-is-such-a-high-rate-of-divorce-in-the-us It seems that it is normal…I see a lot of profiles of older (over 30s) women who are divorced with kids.
I know a friend who is on the verge of divorcing (the wife’s fault) and what has come out is that both of them will feel free to date (definition=sleep with other people) again, and are actually looking forward to it!

This is so ‘funny, whateva happened to the institution of marriage in the US? Over half end up in divorces…..and it all seems normal. Why don’t people marry for real, instead of rushing and ending up in a divorce down the road. I know infidelity plays a big role in these break-ups.
I’ve heard of men who divorce and vow to sleep around till death, knowing well that he already has kids and just go around lying to other women….then dumps them for the next bus (sorry girls!)

Or are all these signs of a dysfunctional society??

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/why-is-it-that-there-is-such-a-high-rate-of-divorce-in-the-us/feed Advice please on infidelity? http://infidelitysigns.net/advice-please-on-infidelity http://infidelitysigns.net/advice-please-on-infidelity#comments Mon, 18 Apr 2011 02:17:49 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/advice-please-on-infidelity My husband and I separated a month ago due to his infidelity. I first found out for sure that he cheated on me a few weeks after our first child was born. He did not show remorse but when i asked about it he admitted everything and i forgave him. It seemed as if he was going to straighten up but a few months i found out that he was cheating again. This time I kept it to myself as well as the next time in hopes that he would stop. Then i noticed he started reading the bible and i figured that he was really trying to change. About two months afterwards i found out that he was cheating with multiple women at the same time. I was at my breaking point when i found out he didn’t use protection with them and then slept with me. I put him out and now he is saying that sometimes he feels like bashing my head in one day and the next day he wants to come home and be a good husband and father. I know that our vows said till death do us part but never in a million years would i have imagined that I would be going through this. He didn’t show any signs of this before we were married unless i was just blinded by love. I don’t know what to do. I feel like if i stay then i will be setting myself up for him to do it again and if i leave it will be a financial struggle for me and our children. Someone please give me some insight on my situation. I have been praying about it and am stuck because of biblical beliefs about divorce and finances.

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]]> http://infidelitysigns.net/advice-please-on-infidelity/feed How to get rid of an EX-girlfriend of my husbands? http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands#comments Wed, 13 Apr 2011 16:37:43 +0000 admin http://infidelitysigns.net/how-to-get-rid-of-an-ex-girlfriend-of-my-husbands I’ve been with my husband for 8 years and his ex just appears occasionally and i’m sick of it. I do trust my husband but with all the garbage I watch on tv about infidelity, it kinda gets to me. She lives across the country, so there’s no way they’d ever see each other, except for when we do visit his family, she’s right down the road from them. About a year into our relationship, he went to visit his family for a month and he did confess months (maybe even a year later) that he went to the movies with her and all they did was kiss each other on the cheek. That was 7 years ago, there havent been any signs of her again up until now. She found him on facebook and tried adding him 3 times, also sent him messages asking why he won’t accept her and thought they were eon good terms and could be friends. He told me that shes contacting him and he showed me the message and he just said he’s going to ignore it and hopefully she’ll go away. Well a week later, she writes him again explaining that she doesn’t understand why he wont accept her as a friend on facebook and did the pity pity me story. I wish this didnt bother me but it does and she’s really p!$$ing me off, I just want her to vanish somewhere and quit bothering my husband.

Should I get involved in Facebook and talk to her or should I just leave it to my husband and let him deal with it?
the movies has always sounded fishy to me too but it was 7 yrs ago, its hard to bring that all up again since I forgave him for it then….i was thinking about contacting her myself just to ask about that day but I dont know if I can trust her and I really dont know how to ask her…
he told me because he knew i’d probably find out since we share almost everything on this computer…if i found out and he didn’t tell me, i would have killed him!! it would have been ugly!

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