Comments on: Does virtual infidelity always lead to physical, and is it considered cheating? http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:35:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: ladybug http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-777 ladybug Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-777 if hes curious (as he said), then he is capable of cheating, because if he dont plan on cheating, then he wouldnt even bother looking at those sites, and being secretive, that is just another red flag, i just went through this same thing with my best friend, and her husband travels for work as well, and she ignored all the red flags, and i kept telling her the same thing, and she didnt want to believe it, till one day he drained out their bank account and rented an apartment with another woman that he met online and was seeing for a while, now my friend and her 3 kids are struggling just to live, go with ur gut feeling, i can guarantee u that its right, wish u all the best of luck. if hes curious (as he said), then he is capable of cheating, because if he dont plan on cheating, then he wouldnt even bother looking at those sites, and being secretive, that is just another red flag, i just went through this same thing with my best friend, and her husband travels for work as well, and she ignored all the red flags, and i kept telling her the same thing, and she didnt want to believe it, till one day he drained out their bank account and rented an apartment with another woman that he met online and was seeing for a while, now my friend and her 3 kids are struggling just to live, go with ur gut feeling, i can guarantee u that its right, wish u all the best of luck.

]]> By: shanon http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-776 shanon Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-776 are you kidding, please tell me you are!!! is it ok for your man to have any type of relation with some other female? girl come on you are smarter than that, love yourself a bit more. are you kidding, please tell me you are!!! is it ok for your man to have any type of relation with some other female? girl come on you are smarter than that, love yourself a bit more.

]]> By: Free-Lance http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-774 Free-Lance Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-774 It's cheating! Anything that take away from the marriage is cheating and about 85% do make it physical. It’s cheating!
Anything that take away from the marriage is cheating and about 85% do make it physical.

]]> By: maribel http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-775 maribel Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-775 he is cheating on you or wants to!!! please think of ur children, u dont need an insecure bastard who cant commit. im sorry but its the truth. there are just way too much secretive stuff going on and you dont need to deal with his bull*** you love him i know but seriously if he loved you, he shouldnt be looking somewhere else.. he is cheating on you or wants to!!!
please think of ur children, u dont need an insecure bastard who cant commit. im sorry but its the truth. there are just way too much secretive stuff going on and you dont need to deal with his bull***
you love him i know but seriously if he loved you, he shouldnt be looking somewhere else..

]]> By: 兵不厭詐。 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-772 兵不厭詐。 Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-772 In some cases and yes it would lead to cheating and it is a form of cheating. In some cases and yes it would lead to
cheating and it is a form of cheating.

]]> By: surlygurl http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-773 surlygurl Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-773 your husband has been looking for women to mess around with virtually for how long? and you are asking if it is a threat to your marriage? It doesn't matter if he never has sex with any of these people or not, you have a handful of proof that he is not interested in you and does not respect you relationship. Do you want to stay with someone like that? your husband has been looking for women to mess around with virtually for how long? and you are asking if it is a threat to your marriage? It doesn’t matter if he never has sex with any of these people or not, you have a handful of proof that he is not interested in you and does not respect you relationship. Do you want to stay with someone like that?

]]> By: Johnny D http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-771 Johnny D Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-771 He probably cheated on you already. If he tried out these dating/affair websites once out of pure curiosity that might be understandable but from what you've written it seems that he's tried out these websites several times. How curious can one guy be? Yes it's reasonable for you to be upset. No guy in a committed relationship should be using dating websites or be sending/receiving sexual texts from other women. He probably cheated on you already. If he tried out these dating/affair websites once out of pure curiosity that might be understandable but from what you’ve written it seems that he’s tried out these websites several times. How curious can one guy be?

Yes it’s reasonable for you to be upset. No guy in a committed relationship should be using dating websites or be sending/receiving sexual texts from other women.

]]> By: Ellye W http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-778 Ellye W Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-778 ok. he got caught. Sounds like it wasn't ever supposed to be just a virtual infidelity. Yes it's inevitable. Don't be stupid girl. he wants to get with these women with all his might, but you keep catching him, so to shut you up, he says he'll stop talking to them, then goes right back and talks to them. And don't be suprised if he's already screwing one of them, and you just haven't caught him. Get a brain, he's cheating, and if he hasn't done it physically he sure is TRYING to get to that point. Drop him. It's not like he had a slip up. He keeps doing it, and you keep allowing it. So he's not ever going to stop even with counselling. My husband did this same crap and I did the same thing you are doing now. "stop talking to her" "ok dear" goes right back and talks to her, waits till I'm out of the house, or he's got a free minute at work, get's a quick screw, then comes home to you so you can cook and clean for him. Get out, before he brings something home to you, or a woman comes to your door looking for him (had that happen to me too) and you end up going to jail for attempting or actually beating her a$$ for being on your front porch (never went to jail, but I sure did want to beat her down) Drop him, can I say it one more time? Drop him.......... ok. he got caught. Sounds like it wasn’t ever supposed to be just a virtual infidelity. Yes it’s inevitable. Don’t be stupid girl. he wants to get with these women with all his might, but you keep catching him, so to shut you up, he says he’ll stop talking to them, then goes right back and talks to them. And don’t be suprised if he’s already screwing one of them, and you just haven’t caught him. Get a brain, he’s cheating, and if he hasn’t done it physically he sure is TRYING to get to that point. Drop him. It’s not like he had a slip up. He keeps doing it, and you keep allowing it. So he’s not ever going to stop even with counselling. My husband did this same crap and I did the same thing you are doing now.
"stop talking to her"
"ok dear"
goes right back and talks to her, waits till I’m out of the house, or he’s got a free minute at work, get’s a quick screw, then comes home to you so you can cook and clean for him. Get out, before he brings something home to you, or a woman comes to your door looking for him (had that happen to me too) and you end up going to jail for attempting or actually beating her a$$ for being on your front porch (never went to jail, but I sure did want to beat her down) Drop him, can I say it one more time? Drop him……….

]]> By: Ashley H http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-779 Ashley H Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-779 he is already being unfaithful to u even if he hasn't cheated physically. there r different from of cheating. it doesn't have to be physical. and yes he seems like the type of man that would have a physical affair as well (i preface that by acknowledging that i've never met him and i'm just going by what u have written). maybe he already has. whatever u do in the future, ur kids should always be the number 1 priority. i wish u good luck. he is already being unfaithful to u even if he hasn’t cheated physically. there r different from of cheating. it doesn’t have to be physical. and yes he seems like the type of man that would have a physical affair as well (i preface that by acknowledging that i’ve never met him and i’m just going by what u have written). maybe he already has. whatever u do in the future, ur kids should always be the number 1 priority. i wish u good luck.

]]> By: Lashley http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-780 Lashley Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:31:10 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/does-virtual-infidelity-always-lead-to-physical-and-is-it-considered-cheating#comment-780 it sounds like your protecting him for yourself bc you can't bare to imagine he'd actually do any of it...however, it most definitely sounds like you're naive. if your husband isn't being physically unfaithful to you...then he is emotionally. have you ever heard of emotional cheating? also...my big question is if he has had reoccurring encounters with women...whether they be verbal or sexual....and you have asked him to stop...and you still have reason for speculation...why would you put past him that he has physically cheated on you? it sounds like he definitely has the upper hand in the relationship and has gotten away with a lot. i would most definitely ask him to counseling...and since he's always away on business and will probably use that for a quick and innocent no to the counseling suggestion....change the locks girl. time to take some control here. you can still see a counselor that can direct you where to go with this. you really need to gain some confidence. i'm not sure how you felt about your confidence before your marriage...but you have to know that you deserved it then...and most DEFINITELY deserve it now after carrying his TWINS. he needs a reality check. do him and yourself a favor and give him one. quick! it sounds like your protecting him for yourself bc you can’t bare to imagine he’d actually do any of it…however, it most definitely sounds like you’re naive. if your husband isn’t being physically unfaithful to you…then he is emotionally. have you ever heard of emotional cheating? also…my big question is if he has had reoccurring encounters with women…whether they be verbal or sexual….and you have asked him to stop…and you still have reason for speculation…why would you put past him that he has physically cheated on you? it sounds like he definitely has the upper hand in the relationship and has gotten away with a lot. i would most definitely ask him to counseling…and since he’s always away on business and will probably use that for a quick and innocent no to the counseling suggestion….change the locks girl. time to take some control here. you can still see a counselor that can direct you where to go with this. you really need to gain some confidence. i’m not sure how you felt about your confidence before your marriage…but you have to know that you deserved it then…and most DEFINITELY deserve it now after carrying his TWINS. he needs a reality check. do him and yourself a favor and give him one. quick!

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