Comments on: condom question for ladies and gentlemen? http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen How to look for signs of infidelity. Sun, 20 May 2012 22:25:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Mike A http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1250 Mike A Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1250 I am a guy, so I am going to go for the prompt you have for men's viewpoints So here goes: The first thing I would do if you saw a condom is check the date on it. This might have been something that he kept for nostalgia's sake. Another possibility is that he might have had them in there for a long time and just hasn't cleaned out his shave kit in a while. I also know guys who use condoms to masturbate with, and they actually buy the ones for solo use at the 99cent store,and even keep them in a separate drawer from the regular ones they might use. I myself am currently single, and its been a while since ive been with anyone, but I still keep condoms on hand; one, because ya never know, and two, because sometimes my friends need them so I give them out. I would say that you could always go and grab one of the condoms, open it, unroll it and blow it up like a balloon. tie it off and come out of the bathroom yelling something like "super-spike!!" while hitting it towards him. His reaction will tell all. Just announce "So we do still have a use for condoms!"" playfully and try and start a game. See how it goes. You might have a hysterical evening of over-the bed condom volley ball, or maybe he will just laugh and pop it. Just take a look every now and then to see if he has replaced the condoms. If he does, just keep blowing them up like balloons and doing silly things with them. Sooner or later, he will see that he won't get away with keeping them on hand. if you find any other evidence of condoms, or discrepancies in his behavior it might be worth asking him if something is going on. Good luck and just maybe you guys might have a funny story to tell about condom volleyball. I am a guy, so I am going to go for the prompt you have for men’s viewpoints So here goes:
The first thing I would do if you saw a condom is check the date on it. This might have been something that he kept for nostalgia’s sake. Another possibility is that he might have had them in there for a long time and just hasn’t cleaned out his shave kit in a while.

I also know guys who use condoms to masturbate with, and they actually buy the ones for solo use at the 99cent store,and even keep them in a separate drawer from the regular ones they might use.

I myself am currently single, and its been a while since ive been with anyone, but I still keep condoms on hand; one, because ya never know, and two, because sometimes my friends need them so I give them out.

I would say that you could always go and grab one of the condoms, open it, unroll it and blow it up like a balloon. tie it off and come out of the bathroom yelling something like "super-spike!!" while hitting it towards him. His reaction will tell all. Just announce "So we do still have a use for condoms!"" playfully and try and start a game.

See how it goes. You might have a hysterical evening of over-the bed condom volley ball, or maybe he will just laugh and pop it.

Just take a look every now and then to see if he has replaced the condoms. If he does, just keep blowing them up like balloons and doing silly things with them. Sooner or later, he will see that he won’t get away with keeping them on hand.

if you find any other evidence of condoms, or discrepancies in his behavior it might be worth asking him if something is going on.

Good luck and just maybe you guys might have a funny story to tell about condom volleyball.

]]> By: jes. http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1251 jes. Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1251 I wouldn't freak out, we don't use condoms. But he still keeps them in the house. I wouldn’t freak out, we don’t use condoms. But he still keeps them in the house.

]]> By: no1advice http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1252 no1advice Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1252 I would ask him why he has a rubber? also I would make damnn sure I was on the pill. I would ask him why he has a rubber?

also I would make damnn sure I was on the pill.

]]> By: Alyssa http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1253 Alyssa Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1253 Doesn't matter if you use condoms or not, you should always have one anyways. I wouldn't make much of this situation. Doesn’t matter if you use condoms or not, you should always have one anyways. I wouldn’t make much of this situation.

]]> By: I tell it like it is http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1254 I tell it like it is Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1254 If he doesn`t wear condoms with you, then who is he wearing them with? If he doesn`t wear condoms with you, then who is he wearing them with?

]]> By: Sarah C http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1255 Sarah C Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1255 I would ask him-but I am the jealous type! I would ask him-but I am the jealous type!

]]> By: laura http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1256 laura Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1256 It seems a bit suspicious if you ask me. If you guys never use condoms, there would be no reason for him to have one. Although, if you guys have been together for over a year, there should be trust. I would sit down and talk about it. Listen to his side of the story and see what he says. Don't automatically jump to conclusions, it may be old. Its a tough decision, because you don't want to miss out on a good thing, but you also don't want to be taken advantage of. Sit down and talk about it or wait for other signs! It seems a bit suspicious if you ask me. If you guys never use condoms, there would be no reason for him to have one. Although, if you guys have been together for over a year, there should be trust. I would sit down and talk about it. Listen to his side of the story and see what he says. Don’t automatically jump to conclusions, it may be old. Its a tough decision, because you don’t want to miss out on a good thing, but you also don’t want to be taken advantage of. Sit down and talk about it or wait for other signs!

]]> By: matt http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1257 matt Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1257 he probably wants to have anal sex. and all guys have a rubber no matter what he probably wants to have anal sex. and all guys have a rubber no matter what

]]> By: Angie http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1258 Angie Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1258 I would ask. Me and my bf don't use condoms (Im on the pill) but we do usually have a backup contraceptive in the house like condoms or sponge, but I know about them! He shouldn't have a need for them... I would ask. Me and my bf don’t use condoms (Im on the pill) but we do usually have a backup contraceptive in the house like condoms or sponge, but I know about them!

He shouldn’t have a need for them…

]]> By: softsand4me http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen/comment-page-1#comment-1259 softsand4me Fri, 27 Aug 2010 11:43:46 +0000 http://infidelitysigns.net/condom-question-for-ladies-and-gentlemen#comment-1259 well im a fm in my 30,s. my first reaction would be urs! is he cheating? since u both travel who knows right? But...and this is too a possiblity. some men use condoms when they are practicing self pleasure. its easy and a quick clean up. do u know he well enough to know that this is a possibility? if u dont think it is then id just be honest and ask why it was in his bag. hope this helped. well im a fm in my 30,s. my first reaction would be urs! is he cheating? since u both travel who knows right? But…and this is too a possiblity. some men use condoms when they are practicing self pleasure. its easy and a quick clean up. do u know he well enough to know that this is a possibility? if u dont think it is then id just be honest and ask why it was in his bag. hope this helped.

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