Comments on: Claims he has told me truth about past infidelity but angrily refuses a lie detector. Why??

By: BOYD H

BOYD H — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

This dude is lying to you big time and I think you know it. He got some at the massage parlor and from Craiglist.

By: ND fan

ND fan — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

if you are already pulling phone records and lie detector tests, why should he help you dig his own divorce grave?

By: Sandy Ego

Sandy Ego — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

Does your decision on whether or not to stay with a liar hinge on the fact of whether or not he had actual vaginal intercourse? Wow. I think the bigger issue here is that he 1) lied to you and betrayed you; and 2) you can’t trust a single word he says even after he confessed and you are presumably trying to put the incident behind you.

How are you planning to run your relationship in the future? Every time he comes home half and hour late after work, you’re gonna hook him up to a lie detector? If you can’t give him at least some benefit of the doubt, this just isn’t gonna work…

By: nonameblonde

nonameblonde — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

I wouldn’t even worry about the lie detector. I’d have left after the "rubs and tugs." I’m sorry. He is disrespectful. He called a left a message for a whore! Come on! What else do you need to hear before you grab your pride and walk out the door?!

By: Quasimodo

Quasimodo — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

LOL…..Someone other than you jerked him off and he says ‘but there was no sex’. Since when is a handjob not sex.? No doubt since the Clinton/Lewinsky fiasco I guess.

I think the massage parlor visits and the craigslist hooker are the tip of the iceberg. And yes…..his response regarding the polygraph is classic guilt. You don’t need a polygraph done….he’s already shown deception.

And remember..where’s there’s smoke…there’s fire.

By: Loving Life

Loving Life — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

Of course it is guilt, he was wrong and he doesn’t want you to know the WHOLE truth…because he knows that you will probably leave him.

By: Helpful Honey

Helpful Honey — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

Just leave, why put yourself thru anymore of his abuse. What a horrible thing to do to you. There is someone out there that will love and respect you and not put you thru hell, which is what he is doing to you now. He is definately doing something wrong behind your back and I don’t need a lie detector to prove it—your story is proof enough. Good luck.

By: ???

??? — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

yeah he’s guilty, if he’s dont it once, hell do it again,

leave him, youll never trust him the same, and you deserve better.

By: Sue B

Sue B — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

Yes, it’s a sure sign, but also, you have to keep in mind that lie detectors aren’t even 100% accurate.

Your hubby does have a problem. You don’t need a lie detector to comfirm this.

Do you see true love for you in his eyes? If so, give him a chance to change. Get him to counceling. Try spiceing up the bedroom. Men may like having a red head one day a blonde the next, so go buy some wigs and try to please him with the sexual fantasies and kinky stuff he wants.

By: Jimmy's Wife

Jimmy's Wife — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:39:55 +0000

If you don’t trust him, why don’t you just leave him?

Quite frankly, if I was finally telling the truth, and my spouse keeps doubting me and pressuring me to prove my honesty, I would be very angry and pissed off too.