Are my ex’s text messages a sign of cheating or fidelity?
so what do u guys think about these text messages from my ex " u must wanna see me", " u looked nice today/u miss me", "what time u get off work"…etc. Are those signs of him cheating and infidelity. I’m asking cuz these are the texts I recieved after me and him broke up. which was a month ago. He lied and said he was divorced thousands of times and deceived me by all the sudden confessing hes still married. He says he wants to work things out w/ his wife, so I said best of luck and dont talk to me no more. I receive these texts a month later when he comes back from down south. His sister even confronts me by saying that those text messages was not a sign of him getting back w/ me ans so forth. Also, his wife even knows about the texts and they are saying I’m trying to ruin the marriage b/c she found out, but i ignored the texts and didnt even talk to him since the breakup! So what u guys opinions on this senario?
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October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
I agree with the previous poster. This man obviously wants something from you, and my guess is he wants nothing more than a hook-up (or two.) Since changing your phone number is a little drastic, I suggest continuing to do what you’re doing and avoid contacting him. Don’t even text him back saying "Don’t talk to me,"; he will view that as a twisted way of saying you actually DO want to talk to him. Just ignore him completely and hopefully he will get the hint and go away.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He wants to meet up with you, that’s why he’s texting you
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He wants to see if you are done being mad and willing to still be his mistress. Change your number.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
i would just ignore him and his family, he has some issues and i think you need to hold your head up high and move on…you can do so much better
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He’s a scumbag.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Sounds like he trying to play games. Cut it off with him. If he has a wife say goodbye. He only going to use you for what he can get out of it. Besides that feel sorry for the wife, if she knows this is going on and stays with him, there is something wrong with her. You already know he is a Lie! Don’t waste your time
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He’s just looking for another piece of a$$! He’s been stuck at home trying to play nice with the wife and is now bored and would like to get you back as a F*** buddy. If you have no self-respect, then you would let him use you. But since you are a smart, intelligent woman for ignoring him all together and letting his wife deal with his sorry a$$. You now need to get him totally off your mind and forget the sorry jerk all together!
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Ignore them. Even if he is trying to get back with you or see you, he’s still married.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He wants to keep both you and his wife. Continue what you are doing.Ignore his texts and move on in life.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Hes’ your EX.
Why is sending you texts?
why are you bothering to even read them?
Ignore him
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
TEXT HIM BACK AND CALL HIM A CHEATING BASTARD AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE FORWARDING HIS TEXTS TO HIS SISTER TO SHARE WITH HIS WIFE. TELL HIM IN NO WAY IS HE TO EVER CONTACT YOU AGAIN! MEN ARE SUCH SCUMS; THEY ONLY WANT ONE THING AND THAT IS WHAT THOSE TEXTS WERE ALL ABOUT……
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
sounds like a cockey cheater to me.
and they say….if they cheat on someone with you then they will cheat on you with someone.
there are plenty of fish in the sea. dont go for a married one hes probably a pos if he is cheating on his wife n e ways.
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Ummm.duh…of course he’s cheating. He was cheating with you the whole time you were going out with him obviously, b/c he confessed he was still married. You can’t trust anything this man says. He’s a loser. Good for you for not talking to him since!
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
He’s the wifes problem now, just ignore im
October 18th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Sounds like he is a real pig. And if you did go another round with him he will probably drop you like before for his wife again. Chicks like you need to get your own man. I think you knew at least at one point he was married and you didn’t care. Shame on you. One of these days you will get married and may have to deal with the same thing. So think about it before you decide to be with another married man. Move on and focus on a real legit relationship with a free man. It would be allot less head games.
Good luck!!